Last year my husband quit his job to start a business. Honestly even if we are not in a comfortable position to do all that, i didnt say a word. I helped him plan what he wanted. I am glad he is doing what he loves doing. Anyway the problem now is I am working from home (MNC - 10 hours min everyday). Have two kids whose online education has to be monitored. My mom stays with us so she handles the cooking part morning and afternoons. I usually cook at night. Last month i tested positive for Corona and i am out of it now. But that lingering tiredness is there. In addition to all this, i am a partner in this business which my husband started. The problem is my plate is quite full with the things that are already there. And now my husband wants me to look into the financial aspect of the business also. I have tried to tell him that i will assist him in minimal ways but it doesn't really seem to enter his head. I agree that he is managing everything else alone. Yes, he is not taking any help from anyone else because we are still not in a place where we can hire external help for all this. But that doesn't mean he should expect me to do that. I am thinking of telling him that i am just too tired to do anything for the business be it suggestions or any ideas during any meetings with the CA firm. But every time, i feel that i am absolutely not interested to be a part of it. I took my time out to introspect why i felt this way and i feel that the reason for this reluctance is because, once i start doing something, then my husband doesn't involve himself in that. I am scared that if i start doing something, then my husband would put it on my head and I don't want that complete responsibility. I mean its his business not mine! Now, if i tell this to my husband, he will shut me out completely. His form of shutting out is completely putting me out of it where i have no say or no update about anything. I cant ask him about anything nor question him about anything. Now, every time i have involved myself especially in the hour of crisis, i find a way out, sort it out and we are out of that issue. Whenever i do that, i don't get appreciation for that (not that i want one) but instead i am berated for not knowing about it immediately or until he has told me. I think that since i am working my job and helping out at home, it is hard for me to be on top of everything. So if he comes and tells me this is the problem, we can work out a solution. Instead all I hear is you should know all this by yourself or had you helped me out earlier, we could have avoided this. Or if you had taken time out to discuss with me we could have sorted it ... I had registered myself for a professional course and am yet to start studying but off late things are so stressful that i have kept the studies aside. Instead i found a hobby...embroidery. i really enjoy doing it. He keeps berating me for it saying its a time waste to do it and why I am not serious enough in completing my professional course or helping out in business. How can i tell him that i want my space where i can do what i want without him hanging around me all the time or where he is not my priority all the time?