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Everyone need appreciation

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by iyerviji, Apr 22, 2010.

  1. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Everyone needs appreciation and encouragement. With encouragement we are able to show our talent more and more.
    Especially for those who do something for the first time.

    Some people know how to appreciate others but some either dont know to appreciate or dont like to appreciate. Usually ladies like appreciation from gents in what ever work they do. When their cooking is appreciated they feel like cooking different kind of dishes everyday.

    For growing children if we appreciate whatever they do they learn so many things and like to show their talent. Here in IL we get lotof encouragement from others , I dont think there is any other site where this much friendship and love is there between eveyone. Its like a family. Long live IL family and kudos to everyone here.
     
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  2. yams

    yams Platinum IL'ite

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    yes viji ma we are like family here!
    can't miss even a day!!
    well said!
    keep posting viji ma!
    :thumbsup
     
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    Dear Viji,
    You have written the truth. Appreciation brings happiness to us. You are the standing example of appreciating others.
    Appreciation is a powerful tool to shift perspective. Finding something to appreciate during a difficult situation quickly moves the perspective to the big picture from the little picture.Appreciating each other is a true family value, one that will bail out much of the stress on the planet and help strengthen the universal bond all people have.Appreciation is a wonderful thing: It makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well.

    with love
    pad
     
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    Very true viji ma! in my earlier replies also i have mentioned a few times that IL is an ocean.It has a rich loving,caring culture which is very rare to find on any other social site.i am so new to IL but feel as if we were all friends since our childhood.hats off to IL.regs-anu:)
     
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    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Yamini

    Thanks for your loving fb

    love
    viji
     
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    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Padmini

    Thank you for your compliments. You are also always there to appreciate and encourage people by your loving fb

    love
    viji


     
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    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Anu

    Thank you for being with me

    love
    viji


     
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    Appreciation is a catalyst to perform better. With the right dose of appreciations at right moments, we can see wonders happening be it at home or at office. But the appreciation should be from the heart.

    But name-sake appreciations (vanja pugazhchi or manja pugazhchi - something they say in Tamil) should not be encouraged.
     
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    Sobhi Senior IL'ite

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    Rightly said viji Mam.
    We women since we do many things without any selfish motive and to always please others and keep others happy, the only thing that we would like is to have little appreciation for the work we do.

    But sadly most of the times its taken for granted and people dont see a big deal in what we do.

    A little bit of appreciation may multiply our efforts by 10 times. Thats how i guess we women are designed :)

    regards
    Shobha
     
  10. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Mallika

    Thanks for your fb and I agree with what you have written

    love
    viji
     

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