Hi All, I have been reading this for a while now and I understand that not all MIL are good and they have problems. But what about the DIL's who doesn't behave?? No one talks about them.. I wanted to share this story with u all, as I wanted to releive the burden from my heart. One of my aunties she was such a great lady. She always wanted to be friendly with her DIL, its her who said that both her son and DIL should stay on their own as they dont want to be a burden on them. And when they were married, both my aunt and uncle made sure they never breaked their privacy. Even the DIL was all well from outside, its only recently we came to know that she used to torture the guy with her words. She is a single child and a bit spoilt. During their wedding we noticed that she or her family didn't really care much about other relatives of the guy. But we were always under the impression that as long as they were happy then who cares!! This boys career is a bit slow at this point and instead of supporting him she always complains that 'I spoiled my own life by marrying u', which guy would want to bear taht kind of words?? But he was really patient till now, everyday the girls mother keeps calling her every 1/2 hour to put something or other in this girls mind. Instead of giving her good suggestions she keeps pesturing her to make her husband do this, that... All they care about is money, because he is not going to US now, they are under the impression that he is a waste guy!! She is the one whoc loved him so much, so when she is happpy she talks to him properly and when she is angry she doesn't care what words she is using and how much it hurts others. She even stopped talking to my aunt and uncle because they tried to impart some wisdom into her brainless shell. She thinks that its easy to breakup because she got her wealthy parents who can take care of her and she left. Both the girls parents support her and doesn't say a word:bangcomp: they dont want this boy to talk to any of his relatives, which he even did for the sake of this girl. Tell me is this right?? I am so angry and frustrated because now its the guy whom they will blame. No one beleives that a DIL is capable of all this.. I know every hubby and wife will have petty things, but I am a strong beleiver that they should be solved in bedroom itself, once it comes out its a shame for both of them. Its better to stay away rather than be with each other. I am sorry to impose this on all of u, but being away from my family, I always feel that I can rely on u Ilites to talk to.. Thanks ladies..