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  1. iyerviji

    iyerviji IL Hall of Fame

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    In life, things happen around us, things happen to us, but the only thing that truly matters is how you take it and what you learn from it, not only we have to learn but dont make the same mistake again. It depends on how we react to it and what we make out of it. . Life is all about learning, adopting and converting all the struggles that we experience into something positive.

    My policy is enjoy each moment of your life and dont miss any opportunities. From 4th August to 9th August was a memorable andenjoyable moment as both my daughters had come and it was fun to be with them and grand daughters. This time both the grand daughters learnt how to make chain andmade by themselves. On Friday we were invited for Varalaxmi nonbu in five places , so whole day was busy visiting. Morning went to Chembur and had lunch there and cam eback in the afternoon. My yunger daughter came a week before that and after staying in her in laws house came to ourhouse. On Friday by 4.30pm elder daughter came with her daughter and evening both daughters went shopping and I went for haldi kumkum with both the gran d daughters. When we went to neighbouring building botht he gran daughters left before me and I thought they musthave gone to our house but was shocked that they had not come and my daughters went searching and I got worried luckily they could find them and they were saying grandma is still inside the house. Then told them to be with me when we went toother houses. On Saturday went to my son's house and daughters tied rakhi and evening went for birthday party ofmy bil's grand son, 1stbirthday Wehad a gala time there, we from our family we were all wearing blue .They had games for children and they enjoyed. Sunday went to meet my sis in law and and my niece. Monday was aviniavittam. Everyday daughters had to go for shopping. Yesterday both left and the house is looking empty now and I am back to jewellery making.

    Happiness is not in leading a luxurious life , in a relation we have to understand each other , find time to keep our spouse happy and do those little things for each other which will build intimacy. Life is full of imperfect things and imperfect people. I’m not the best . But what I’ve learned over the years is that learning to accept each others faults – and choosing to celebrate each others differences – is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.

    Failure is a part of learning. We should never give up the struggle in life. You Fail not because you are destined to fail, but because there are lessons which you need to learn as you move on with your life.

    We have to learn to respect and respect you have to earn, you cannot force it on others to respect you. There is a thin line between Fear and Respect, every one of us should understand it and do necessary corrections in our personalities.

    Life is Short. Spend much time as you can loving and caring people who love you. Enjoy each moment with them before it’s too late. There is nothing important than family. In everone's life there are strange experiences. sometime it shocks you and sometimes it may surprise you. We end up making wrong judgments or mistakes in our anger, desperation and frustration. However, when you get a second chance, correct your mistakes and return the favor. Be Kind and Generous. Learn to Appreciate what you are given.

    We learn everything from experience, thats why elders teach us what they learnt and try to make us a better person but in our young age we dont realise that they are advising us for our better and dont give importance to some advises which we realise later after aging only that why missed learning what we were taught.

    When I look back I remember the good advices my grandmother used to give . Without having much facilities they lived they had to struggle a lot but still they lead a life with peace and happiness. They were satisfied with what they had , thats why they were happy.








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  2. Suja9

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    A very nice write up ma!! :)
     
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    Thanks Suja dear
     
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    Dear Viji,

    Glad to know that you had nice time with your daughters and grandchildren.My daughter is coming next week and will be here for a week.As kids have exams, she alone visits us.From now
    on wards I am planning to make dishes of her choice and to visit temples of her choice.Hereafter the frequency of their visits may be reduced as children go to higher classes.Yes, what you say is right.we have to make the best use of given opportunity and try to be as peaceful as possible.
    Wonderful snippet.
    Jayasala 42
     
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    satchitananda IL Hall of Fame

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    So nice to know you had a great time Vijima. Enjoyed seeing all the pictures you posted on FB.
     
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    joylokhi Platinum IL'ite

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    Dear
    viji maami,
    nice to hear u had a busy and enjoyable time with your daughters and family. I was missing your posts for some time.
     
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    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    That's so nice, Viji. Did grandma teach them? : )
     
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    Nice and sweet writeup as usual ! You are adorable Aunty !
     
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    Dear viji,
    It is always nice to have our loved ones with us during festival days. Glad that you had a gala time from 4th August to 9th August. As soon as our loved ones go back for sometime we do feel a vacuum, but get back to our routine and continue doing what we like to get rid of the boredom.
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    Thank u for these lines Viji Mam. I was actually upset :( today bcoz i couldn't excel well in an exam. Yes, like you said i should learn from my failure and shouldn't get upset. As usual, very good snippet, quite motivating.:)
     
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