Many relatives and friends gift my twin girls with frocks, pavadais, and skirts,pants,etc.. Some of them will be of correct size and others will be larger or smaller.. I used to wear the correct sized dresses and take photos of them and send them to persons who gifted them. I do this voluntarily out of courtesy and also to thank them. There are few relatives who expect that I should put their dresses immediately and take photos and send it to them.They even suggest that I should use those dresses for particular functions…Dealing with them is becoming difficult day by day. There are 2 types of such people: First type – They message me directly and ask for the same.I reply them back stating that I will send photos when I put those dresses..They will say ok, but send same message after 2 or 3 days.. They won’t let me live in peace unless I send them. Second Type – These people won’t ask me directly.. They will call my family members and complain that I am purposefully not using their dresses.They would even suggest that I should use those dresses for a particular occasion. I get irritated when I hear this – I have my own plans regarding my girls’ dresses..Who are they to interfere in this?? I say ‘No’ to my family member, who convey this to them. Thanks to those who gift dresses..But please don’t pester me that I have to send photos immediately..My girls are still very young – changing dresses and clicking photos are becoming difficult day by day. And stop suggesting that I have to wear those dresses for particular occasions. If you think that you have all rights to question me, then, I am sorry to say this – Please don’t gift anything!! Thanks!!! Note: This post has been already published in my personal blog myliltwincesses.wordpress.com.