He is giving me his finances to run our family. I take care of him and our children.I run the house so that he can go out and earn the money for his family without having to worry about our kids and our family. We are not giving each other 1-2-3 things ,we are giving each other a happy family. We have been married for 21 years and he loves and values me even more with every passing year. He knows the reality and realizes how lucky we are to be a family. There is nothing one sided about our family. I guess he must be weak in maths ....or maybe learn it from a different place .And JFYI ...this is how most people we know function too.