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Dont marry in haste and repent in leisure

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by nitasen3, Jul 22, 2013.

  1. nitasen3

    nitasen3 Silver IL'ite

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    At the outset let me tell all of you that no artificial flavor of creativity has been added in this thread.......There has been a strange discovery in my family ....My nephew (inlaw) has been married for 4 years.....There has been a lot of search for a suitable bride for him....Atlast he got frustrated and ultimately decided to get married letting down all the dreams and expectations he had about his dream girl....He went with his mom to see the girl and immediately gave commitment of marriage......They did not do any kind of background check etc....(For that matter not even her actual age)........Just the other day he realized that he did his matriculation in 1994 and his wife in 1988........She is 6 years older than him.....Her family lied about her age......They even realized that his wife's marriage proposal with his two older brothers got rejected twice......Years later he married her and then realized that he married an older female that too in a fully arranged marriage....I am sharing this family episode with you all just to advice the single eligible bachelors and spinsters here not to rush in your marriage....Take your time, ask questions, clarify ur doubts if any, and them commit for marriage........No hurry please.....
     
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    pinky6 Platinum IL'ite

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    OK Aunty:coffee........thanks for your concern:bowdown......
     
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    anika987 IL Hall of Fame

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    do not be rude to people.
     
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    Endlesshope Platinum IL'ite

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    But " sabar ka phal meetha hota hai" no?????
     
  5. justice218

    justice218 Bronze IL'ite

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    but how is the relationship between the two? r they still married? what did the boy do when he found the truth?
     
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    Its absolutely wrong to cheat but if they are happy age doesnt matter at all.
     
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    Memories Senior IL'ite

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    You are a piece of art - nithaji...Such unique threads...How do you weave them, huh??
     
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    anugamit Platinum IL'ite

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    He already compromised with his dreams and expectations before marriage then why repent later....It seems you are more worried about him than he himself.

    BTW, how you come up with so many relationship problem threads every week???
     
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    flowerlady IL Hall of Fame

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    OP has a large interesting family and lots of inlaws.
    So what if the girl is elder to the boy , its karma, fate, destiny.
    She had to marry into this family only after getting rejected by the two elder bros.
    Persistence pays, like King Bruce and the spider story.
     
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    how did I miss this thread of nitasen3 aunty [​IMG]
     

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