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Dont know why I cried today

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by iyerviji, Mar 27, 2010.

  1. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Life has taught me so many things. I always had good friends. God has always been with me and has blessed me always. Now after I have known about IL and of late there are so many friends here and sharing with you all everything I feel so happy. I think like an autobiography I have written many things which I have experienced in life.

    I have had good and bad experiences. Some people have hurt me and some have given so much love which I will always treasure. When my Dad expired I was eighteen years old. The day I cried too much was when my sister got married. We were so close to each other. If she had to be in Mumbai itself I woudl not have felt bad. But since she was going to Delhi I felt very bad . Now By God's grace because now direct connection is there between Bombay and Delhi we are able to talk everyday.

    I am writing this because after a long time today I cried to my heart's content. I had gone for Bhajan today at 6.30 p.m. After going there after sometime I just felt like crying and cried to my heart's content, dont know for what I felt like crying. I thought of calling my sister and talking to her but felt bad to go out in the midst of the bhajan. Later I became alright and enjoyed the bhajan.

    Just wanted to share with you all , by which I feel better.
     
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  2. radsahana

    radsahana Silver IL'ite

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    Dear Viji mam,

    U cried, and you felt light. I think it is ok to cry sometime and make ourself light. I also appreciate that you are always happy and content, with your life and never feel any "koorai". That itself is a great feeling isnt it:)

    Even sometime i feel like crying, and i cry then (but ofcourse when i am lone). sometime there need not be any reason, just like that, but to tell you, after a good cry, we do really feel light.

    Have a gr8 day.
     
  3. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Radha

    Thanks for the first fb. Ya I like to be content with what we have. I dont have any kurai, God has blessed me with everything. Now with my sharing with you all everything I feel very happy.

    Ya after crying I felt better and enjoyed the bhajan. Wanted to stay till the end but my dh wanted to go back as my daughter was at home with grandkid.

    love
    viji


     
  4. Soldier

    Soldier Gold IL'ite

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    Oh Viji aunty! Why did you cry?

    Today only when Sudha was teasing me for something, I told here the following-

    There is a child in every adult - may be the proportion of child in adult is a mismatch in me.
    Yesterday only while replying to Viji Aunty I mentioned that just like all of us there was a CHILD in Viji Aunty also and that she was nurturing the CHILD, keeping the CHILD happy and thereby she is also happy.

    Now within hours after that, I see this thread from you. May be neengal bhajans keyttu meymaranthu poayvitteergalo. That's why the tears and I don't think it would have been a cry as such.

    Anyway, nice that your heart became light later and you enjoyed the bhajans.

    Cheer up Aunty!!
     
  5. PushpavalliSrinivasan

    PushpavalliSrinivasan IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear Viji,
    Sometimes crying is also good as it makes our heart light. Sometimes our sins are washed out if we repent and cry. You have said that by pouring out your thoughts you are writing your autobiography. Would you believe it if I say that I started writing my autobiography when I got my computer and before I joined IL? I have yet to finish it. I have written it exclusively for my family and close relatives of our well knitted family.
    <meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><meta name="ProgId" content="Word.Document"><meta name="Generator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><meta name="Originator" content="Microsoft Word 11"><link rel="File-List" href="file:///C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5CWELCOME%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtml1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml"><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:View>Normal</w:View> <w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:punctuationKerning/> <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/> <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:Compatibility> <w:BreakWrappedTables/> <w:SnapToGridInCell/> <w:WrapTextWithPunct/> <w:UseAsianBreakRules/> <w:DontGrowAutofit/> </w:Compatibility> <w:BrowserLevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel> </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" LatentStyleCount="156"> </w:LatentStyles> </xml><![endif]--><style> <!-- /* Style Definitions */ p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal {mso-style-parent:""; margin:0in; margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language:AR-SA;} @page Section1 {size:8.5in 11.0in; margin:1.0in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in; mso-header-margin:.5in; mso-footer-margin:.5in; mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1 {page:Section1;} --> </style><!--[if gte mso 10]> <style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; mso-para-margin:0in; mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-ansi-language:#0400; mso-fareast-language:#0400; mso-bidi-language:#0400;} </style> <![endif]-->[FONT=&quot]I am not a great a person to write an autobiography, but the incidents that have occurred in my life are rare to come across which made me think,’Why not share them with my near and dear ones, if only it could help them or enrich their lives in some way’. Not only for that reason, at the evening of my life I wanted to reminisce over both pleasant and painful happenings around my life and that of my loved ones; to ponder over the life lived thus far and see whether I had done justice to myself and the people around me by living the way I did, and also whether I had served the purpose for which the supreme lord had created me. I had never shared with my children about my childhood days and the way I had been brought up.[/FONT]Hence I thought this would be the most appropriate way to share my feelings.
    There is nothing wrong in sharing our life experience,
    Love,
    PS
     
  6. shreyashreyas

    shreyashreyas Gold IL'ite

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    Sometimes, tears are the feelings that we could not vent out to anyone.... those feelings that were down somewhere our heart and those feelings were being nursed by us saying not now, some time later.....

    Good that they came out.... Talk to your sibling viji aunty, you will feel more comfortable and happy.....

    and next time, before you shed tears please post a thread so that we can share your feelings with you......

    Sandhya
     
  7. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Mallika

    According to Sriniketan's thread which was written sometime back when we cross 60 yrs after that our age should be counted from 1. So according to tha tmy age is now 6 years. So I am a child now somtimes crying and sometimes laughing, but most of the time smiling.

    I also dont know why I cried whether it was the anandam hearing the bhajans are some fear in my heart , but cried to my hearts content, and after that I felt much better and enjoyed the bhajans.

    Today went for Sita Kalyanam but Sita Kalyanam which I attended on RamNavami was very good. The songs which they sang during Sita Kalyanam was very touching. Yesterday's bhajan was also very good.

    love
    viji
     
  8. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Pushpa Mami

    I am so thrilled to see you here and feel very happy as if I have got something great. Good to know that you have started writing your autobiography. Your children and your close people will be glad to read it because you are such a nice person with a pure heart.

    With namaskarams
    viji


     
    Last edited: Mar 28, 2010
  9. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Sandhya

    Thank you for your encouragement. Ya I spoke to my sister today and shared my feelings with her and felt happy

    love
    viji


    QUOTE=shreyashreyas;1131764]Sometimes, tears are the feelings that we could not vent out to anyone.... those feelings that were down somewhere our heart and those feelings were being nursed by us saying not now, some time later.....

    Good that they came out.... Talk to your sibling viji aunty, you will feel more comfortable and happy.....

    and next time, before you shed tears please post a thread so that we can share your feelings with you......

    Sandhya[/QUOTE]
     
  10. natpudan

    natpudan Gold IL'ite

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    I think all of us emotional to some thing or some one.

    But you are emotional to every thing & every one.

    That's yourself. I am happy that you recoup well & it's business as usual.

    Thanks for sharing Viji Ma.
     
    Last edited: Apr 1, 2010

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