yea... I visited my doctor today. the other day she saw an egg and asked me to have ic yesterday. And asked me to come today for another scan. I went and she said the egg might have gone thru. It might have been an immature egg which went thru. So since I had "ic" or so I thought yesterday and today, I might have a chance but not to get disappointed if I dont. So I asked her about him forgetting how to ic because we didnt do it for almost 2 weeks, she also said that it was plain ********. Even children are getting it straight these days and if he cant, its not my problem. I can help him as a team but such reasons are baseless. thats the summary. She suggested he take some meds before an hour/30 mins of ic. BUt one thing is for sure, we do not have great communication or chemistry and we are new to each other. OUr lives have not been kind to us during this time. ONly that he wants children . I want children. But it feels like he is doing me a favour by agreeing to ic and that I need to take care of his fears and capabilities. While I just do pranayama and million tests and scans for my fears and capabilities. NOw I need to ask him how often he needs to do so he doesnt forget. He says "weekly" but I think I need to be more specifc - like every 3 days or every 4 days etc. (I mean if we do on 1st, that is sunday and 14th which is next saturday, we are still once a week but gap is 14days so he may forget ) Cant commit to every other day because ... life, job, health, routine, tired. etc. I cant figure out how to address all his concerns so I am not in the wrong here. Parents are smart. mine sensed something and said that I should not hesitate to tell if I am not happy with something or if somethign is borthering me. I told some parts but not too detail. But im blessed in some aspects.