Dont ever argue!

Hi Cheeniya Sir
Very nice reading and enjoyed everyones take on it. I tend to agree with most in that we should try and avoid if possibe. its my personal experience that its not always possible . but growing older i 'm getting a handle on my inner warning signs (grrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!) in time to move away. But ofcourse not always. Atleast thankfully when my husband and i argue or disagree we slowly bring it around to end with agreement. That always leaves a nice feeling.
It really is not worth the effort to enter into arguements and leave disagreeably.
regards
anandchitra:-D

 

Aamaam Cheeniya saar....Nattai...adhilum gambeera nattai thevai aakkum. Engalukku thindattam, ungalukku kondattam........:evil:
............Ooops....did I argue ?!

L, Kamla

 

Sri,

The more i read yr blogs, the more i am falling in love with you.Wonderful.The examples yu have given of the Sales Manager,and yr friends are real eyeopeners.

I agree what u say is so true.

I wrote a blog on another site,of a true story,amd someone took offence to it.let me quote in short

A friends' mother was admitted to a private nursing home this Febuary 07,and she died 2 days later.He spent a lakh on her.When he took the dead body , they removed the sheet covering her.He requested the authorities to give them a bedsheet to take the body home,and charge him for it,but they refused.He had to leaave the body and go home to get a sheet, which took an hour.

Sri, you can imagine his grief,what he must have gone thru when he was on his way hom to get the bedsheet.

I was out of town,and came to know later.I wrote a blog saying how cruel of the hospital authorities, not to give a bedsheet to a dead person.

A doctor very esteemed on the blog, took insult to my blog(otherwise a very good friend of mine on the blog),and lamblasted me, for not knowing the rules of the hospitals,etc etc.

I was very hurt,bt i chose not to get into an argument, i apologised on the blog and forgot about it.

Some people take things personally.My point was this.This Doctor works in a Govt hospital where these things are expected.But in a private nursing home who charge u thru yr nose, who wont release the dead body until u have paid yr dues, who charge u 50,000 per day, if they cant provide a bedsheet for the dead,even for payment,wont it hurt ?

I beleive why take things personally,why be sensitive too much.Well thats life,Sri, you have seen more of life than me.

So even if u disagree with me Sir, I wont fight with you:-( Sad really at atimes.

what a wonderful blog, an eyeopener.i have somany of yrs to read Sri.Thanks and regards.kamal

 

Sri,

thanks for yr kind comments.This Doctor writes about his personal sad history, how his wife and daughter left him and he dosnt know where they are since the last few years.

But maybe he has a big ego,and he may be different in personal life.I adn wife love his blogs,and i wrote him a note,giving my mobile no and asked for his,as i wanted to speak to the great as did mywife.

He sent a note asking for my landline no and postal adress, which i sent.Its been 6 months now,and no communication from his side.Maybe he wanted to confirm who i am,fine.But now after this incident, i have no more interest to speak to him.

Sri,well these are some unpleasant incidences in an otherwise wonderful life.Life goes on.

Thanks and regards.kamal

 

Sri,

Yes even the greats have feet of clay at times.Regards.kamal