@Viswamitra Thanks Viswa sir on behalf of your wife and mom. You remind me of my uncles who never hesitate to help the family. My uncles and grandfather are just like you. Since i was broughtup by my grandparents, i grew up looking at them and thought that all guys would help their family. This is what caused a rude shock initially into marriage. Atleast now, i have matured enough to just discuss about it normally but earlier i used to cry a lot thinking what have i got into. At times, i get reminded of a situation that happened early on into my marriage. I was 7 months expecting, working 9 hour shifts a day and came back and cooking and other stuff. I remember switching on the washing machine to wash the clothes at night so i could dry it in the morning. At middle of the night, my husband woke me up to show that the bathroom was clogged and the washing machine water floated over into the living room. All he did at that time was to give a mop stick and a wiper in my hands and he went back to watching his movie at midnight. I never said anything just wiped out the water and cleaned the bathroom and went back to sleep. So yes, earlier i used to cry abd feel horrible and bad about it but now i am resigned to my life. I know that some things can be changed while others cant. I am molding my sons to help me because its the best i can do for them and their future and myself at present.