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does your husband have a circle around him...r u in it???

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  1. Mar 25, 2013 #1
    saman

    saman Bronze IL'ite

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    hi

    i have noticed that my husband have a invisible imaginary circle around him...in which he is the center point of the circle...the god...
    next nearest people are his mother , sister and father in the same order....
    that will close the circle of his close family....then in the next circle is wife....
    how ever close he is to wife as soon as the issue with parents come the guy will automatically go inside his circle....

    i feel this is wat i observed in my experiences....
    i invite other ilites to share there feelings if this sounds familiar :)
     
    saman, Mar 25, 2013
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  2. Mar 25, 2013 #2
    Decentguy

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    Do you have any specific issue to share?

    This has been discussed before on this forum. Also in "Inlaws" section. Maybe not the exact words but issues with MIL, PIL, SIL etc.
     
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    Minara

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    I agree with you.. some times I wonder if he thinks that we left everything and came just to please him or what.. but sometimes, when we don't mention his parents, all is fine.. hmm..
     
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    snm1984

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    You know what-put a nice joyous circle around you that consists of your parents,friends,hobbies,interests...if your H wants to reach you he has to cross that circle.In other words don't make him your priority unless he realizes your worth.The less you care will yearn more.Refer coolpinky's thread "The Power of Ignorance":)
     
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    sumipani

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    I thought I am the only one feeling this about my husband. But really surprise to know same as my husband putting circle around them.
     
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    MaritalBliss

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    I hope I am in the circle that my husband has around him...
     
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    Amartan

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    I guess every woman would love to be in that situation...for me next to me it's his friends friends firends
     
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    Ishika84

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    Yes I feel same but in my DH circle
    His phone
    Laptop
    Osho are on no 1....
    And other chage as per his wish...
     
    Ishika84, Apr 10, 2013
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    ShilpaMa

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    Men b4 mrg - pie_for_all.jpg Ye am all balanced ... try me once....

    Men Aftr Mrg pie_post.jpg Momma's boys have mom in red stripes and wife in icicing arnd..

    After a decade... we have our own circles and the only intersection point is kids in RED.... rest everything in BLACK and WHITE and 2 diamesional.
    intersection.gif

    I used to be somewhere in the periphery of his circles.... after trying bigger and bigger to complete a circle arnd him.. I broke up into another circle of my own and now the only connection keeping us tog is kids.
     
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  10. Apr 10, 2013 #10
    kiranavvari

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    I completely agree to this ShilpaMa. My H has not just a circle, an iron wall around him, and he is the only one entitled in that.. Not even his parents or sisters dare enter into the circle. If we have any arguments, he goes into his shell behind that iron wall, and will take ages to at least peep out of the wall :)
     
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