So I met this American guy(will post the details below) who lives in about 5-6 hours of driving distance. When I contacted him first, he said he considers me his friend and I can reach out to him anytime to say hi or even for any questions I have (I had contacted him for some info). During that time he even said if I visit his city, he would take me around and if I plan to go somewhere he might join me. I too consider him as friend at this point. However I reached out to him after a month to see how he is doing and we talked about how I am not able to travel anywhere at all because of lockdown and he goes "If I would have known you better, I would have invited you here to hang out... I mean I know you won't steal anything of mine, but still.." and this statement of his hit me. I felt like he was super rude and disrespectful. So the story: We were traveling in his city here in California and my mom found a wallet on the street which belonged to this guy. It had his business card, I called, he came picked it up, mom was with me back then and he found the guy to be genuine and nice. He was super excited to get it back, told us he is emotionally attached to it and has been using it for 20+ years, offered $50 saying he wanted to buy us breakfast and we denied. I have more job opportunities in that city, so was thinking to move there in near future. I don't have any friends there, so I thought of getting to know more about the city from him if he is ok with it. My friends and family said it would be nice as you will also have someone over there who you know incase of anything. So companies are not hiring at present, but still 5 months down the line, I reached out to him for info. No doubt he gave me more than what I was looking for via text. He then started asking me lots of questions about me as he was trying to get to know me and I asked a few as well. He shared lots of his info too and was also talking about his friends and family. He said he lives alone and it's difficult for him during this lockdown. At times I felt he was boasting about his life, job and materialistic things he owns. He said his bro has a boat and since this guy lives near water, I said you should get a one too. He replied "You just want to know a guy with a boat.. I know how this works". I found this rude too and I told him am not interested in it, but since the overall conversation was great, I let it go. That's when he said I can reach out to him anytime.. us being friends.. talk to you soon.." He didn't contact me for a month, so I thought of reaching out today to check how is he doing. This time he was completely opposite of what he was during our last month's chat. He wasn't sharing much info about him or asking me... wrote few statements which mainly revolved around him being busy and exercising and likes traveling. Just asked me basic questions of how am I and how's everything. And then I started talking about travel, lockdown and that's when he talked about not knowing me better... (Both times I have not even asked him to invite me or take me around when I visit there). I told him I am not interested to steal anything of his even if I see him any day. I tried initiating conversation 2-3 times so we could know each other better as friends, but he would just reply every 10,20 or 30 mins and not ask me anything. I usually end the chat on a good note, but I didn't reply anything at the end and he didn't either. I felt very bad, rude and disrespectful of his whole behavior and don't feel like labeling him as a friend anymore. Not sure what's wrong with people these days or I should just stop making friends at all.