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Discussion in 'Friends & Neighbours' started by anika987, Dec 23, 2022.

  1. Dreamer

    Dreamer Silver IL'ite

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    Very natural and not abnormal at all. You're an introvert and so am I. There are many of us! It's one of the reasons I don't like living where I currently do because of many people in the house.
     
  2. nandinimithun

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    I am happy with my family and myself, home cooked food, aroma of ghee on top of hot rice and rasam alongwith some chips and a comedy show or something to talk.

    I don't like parties because i feel beyond a point i dont have anything to talk, i dont use anything branded, so that department doesnt work either.

    I have some close friends and i am ok to meet them now and then, without any fornal invitation.... For me getting dressed for an event or going out is boring and tiring.

    Home is where the heart is and heart is where I reside.

    Love
    Nandini
     
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    Thyagarajan IL Hall of Fame

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    East or West Home is Best. Ok. Home is where heart is.ok. heart is where hearth is. Is it double ok? Couch potato not ok for all ages. Hyper active. Medium ok if it'
    s child or young ones .
    In my relatives circle one lady never used to mix up with others and distanced herself from all occasions. Her children too were deprived of being friendly with them now in her old age. I find her children criticise mother's attitude that made them connection less with their kin.
    Happy Holiday season and MMXXIII
     
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    nandinimithun IL Hall of Fame

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    I do mingle with my relatives when there is a need but i dont do it overboard.

    I let me kids mingle with relatives too. These days relatives themselves maintain a distance for various reasons.
     
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  5. svpriya

    svpriya Silver IL'ite

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    Yes me too the same...
     
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    drdiva Silver IL'ite

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    Sorry I am different..The way you describe yourself looks like it would be great being at home with yourself and less friends , less outings but I somehow enjoy going out, meeting new people, taking kids out and exploring. But I think no one is wrong or different. Its absolutely personal choice.
     
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    shyamala1234 Platinum IL'ite

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    It is good to make kids mingle with relatives and friends. Otherwise they would left alone when they grow up and they cannot mix with people and miss a lot of fun too. Many times they observe parents. Need not one go overboard but should not become too introvert too.
    Syamala
     
  8. Thyagarajan

    Thyagarajan IL Hall of Fame

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    more so for mental development. After all children learn more by observing others. It helps even discriminate right and wrong, which to follow and which to ignore, avoiding bad association all by and by.
     
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    nandinimithun IL Hall of Fame

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    Yes i do make my kids mingle with friends and family and i mingle myself too...

    To an extent i make sure when kids meet at my place, that they dont watch tv, i play with them, board games and so on....

    It is ok to be an introvert, and it is ok to be an extrovert too.... Sometimes situations teaches us lot of things.
     
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  10. anika987

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    Good replies.Thank you all : )
     
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