Doctor Posts His Shirtless Photos On Social Media

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  1. chanchitra

    chanchitra Platinum IL'ite

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    It depends. Some men would be more affectionate and considerate to the naive wife.
    Most men would take advantage, like controlling their married life. They may not abuse. But everything will be done as they wish
     
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    That's what I don't like.

    Right now, I got lot on my plate, but at least I get to do what I WANT during my free time.

    I am even encouraged to practice Bansuri, i.e. Venu because it is the only thing that brings me joy. What is the chance I can practice Bansuri if everything is done per the husband's wish. An husband also has his family (doesn't matter if desi or non-desi)
     
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    You mean parents, siblings?
     
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    Yes his parents, siblings, etc.

    Also known as in-laws who have the power to break the most happiest of marriages

    They can poison a husband against his wife (worse if she is innocent and naïve to their schemes)
     
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    Yes. It's tough.
    Unless you go out and date, you will never know.
    Good men do exist.
     
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    Kannaal Kaanbadhum Poi,
    Kaadhal Ketpadhum Poi,
    Theera visarippadhey Mei.


    Translates to:

    What you see could be false,
    What you hear could be false,
    To do the due diligence and understanding the facts will get the truth.

    Human mind forms opinion very quickly. If someone says one sentence we form an opinion based on the patterns already formed in our mind.

    A woman says: My mother in law is very cruel and every woman who has MIL issues empathize with the first woman and side with them righaway from that one sentence. But once you get to the weeds, the truth might be different.

    Doctor and shirtless picture and too little information. But raising eyebrows on this is natural. Shirtless picture is not a profile of a doctor. It could be profile of an actor, sportsman, gym coach, someone who was heavy and lost weight. Maybe the doctor also fits in some other profile which we are unaware of.

    In the end, after collecting all the needed information, going by the gut is the only option.
     
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    Thyagarajan IL Hall of Fame

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    It is said A rose is a rose even if it is called by a different name.
    Similarly a doctor is a doctor with or without SHIRT,
    Afterall His Expertise lies not in shirt but in his greymatter - I mean his brain.
    I must remind here that ‘naked appearance’
    is always deceptive.
     
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    I read your response before I slept and I asked God how to put myself out there to get happiness

    I don’t know how to go out and date

    Where to meet good men?

    I read so many horror stories about women in bars, lounges. If girl doesn’t like boy she cannot say “no” because he might harm. Instead she had to give out fake phone number.

    And this is in Western society where men are 100, women are maybe 99


    All I can do is ask God.

    How to put myself out there for Happinesses?

    And go by how much a Man’s kindness touches your ❤️

    I actually had this experience a month back. At one of Doctors appointments the Doctor was so kind and gentle to my Uncle, and was so nice to me.

    Few days realized I started to have liking for. Doctor (he is your typical middle aged balding man with a soft belly - but keeps good health)

    I think that niceness might be part of his religion (similar to Amish, I believe). But he’s married with kids (I hope he is nice to his wife and kids)
     
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    This is very thoughtful post.

    I reacted based in last experiences.

    I’ve seen some guys post online selfies (nit shirtless) and try to show they are hip and cool.

    In real life he was Ill-mannered, did not respect his wife (flirted with other women online) while the wife’s family pampered him (not me, someone else), bought him big stuffed animals and celebrated his birthday.

    And this chap was well into his 30s!

    So naturally when I saw this Doctors shirtless photos I thought he was scary Doctor Frankenstein
     
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    If he can help my Uncle I'll love him forever!
     

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