Do you guys believe in the concept of Drishti/nazar?

Yes, I believe in dristi/nazar. I have read a lot of remedies to remove it but I don't really practice it. For children, its normal to put a black dot on the forehead to remove dristhi. Even for any good auspicious occasions, like marriage, certain procedures are done to remove dristi (bad eyes) on the newly wedded couple. There's also a trend that to give sweet food to people around you when telling good news so that only good things will be said by them.

 

Hi all

Just a thought on mind

It is very known fact that Aarthi is being taken to married couples at the time of marriage...
Hope all would have experienced this?

Is this not one way of removal of evil eyes ????

Confirm whatz the significance of this with your elders and revert back pls

 

don't you think even the evil eyes methods are done don't we see everybody is undergoing whats destined for???
Does this concept really applicable when karma concept is there?? will these eyes really change or create issue. It might be a coincidence in certain circumstances. If this concept applies then everywhere everybody should have hitting on things on above said issues should happen always.

 

Rakhii: No matter what people think of me (old school, stupid thinking or beliefs) , I do accept that I strongly believe in Drishti and Nazar as far as my DD or my DH goes. I used to put that black dot till say 7 months and then stopped but I do Nazar utarna atlease once a week if not alternate days. I definitely believe in it as I also had some experiences like you. It may or may not be related but when it comes to DD or DH i dont take chance ever..I definitely see the difference after I do Nazar utarna. Again it may or may not be related but I beleive it is because of all the drishti it happened.. I might sound old school but this who I am

 

I do believe it a lot regarding to kids as elders say when some people see its not good...

whenever I feed my son I take the drishti out with the same bowl, and also when I give him bath.. when he was small after bath we use to put small bindi on his one side of forehead as it gave him little rash we stop and started keeping it on sole of foot. right now nothing but I do prefer to take drishti away after he eat food its a must and should... and also elders say. looking at kid for a long time make kids fall sicks. I use to look at my son when he was playing, sleeping my mom use to yell at me.. I don't know how many of you believe this but I do..

Its not good to feed kids before some people.. I did experience that.. I try to avoid doing that but sometimes we cant help it when the kid is hungry.we can only pray for our little love..

 

Yes, I have seen aarti numerous times especially when the married couple returns back home. Reason to remove evil eyes. This was the procedure which I was explaining in my above post.

 

Your above post is lengthy. so i get to post a lengthy resposne too Rakhi. Wokay?

1) First :biggrin2: ....

2) Take a white piece of cotton cloth...(Peoples use my shirts/kurta :evil: for these purposes).

3) the hold the cloth in your right hand and touch the perosns body with that cloth front back sides top feet. move ur hand in vertical circleular motion. all the while sayign 'thu thu thu'

4) throw the cloth on the floor and ask the person to stamp on it with feet.

5) then hold the cloth out and ask the perosn to say 'thu thu on the cloth' - spit .

6) Now, set this cloth on fire. (in Indi mom would hold this burning cloth in hand yeah she is an alien :crazy and makes circles evrticzl moves it all around the body) ..... .......then throw it down.

7) if you smell cloth burnign smell, then there is no Dishti.
if you cant smell anything - then there is Dishti..eveil eyes were cast upon the child and thats being burned to ashes in th efire. Make sure whole cloth is burned into ashes.

8) Then with your thumb finger on right foot, touch the blackend ashes. Black color sticks to your thumb.then with finger, put it on person';s forehead, stomach, some hand (palm) i dont know which one, underpart feet ... and throw the ashes away.

9) Child or the adult whoever it is will feel wonderful right away.

Proof: when you burn a cloth, you can smell it. but why is that a sometimes a cloth burning doesnt give out any smell? tell tell? why why why? tells somethign. noh?


all in all...it gives you a wonderful feeling. sounds interesting...

if people dont beleive itn it...no harm.....stay calm, bear the misery for soemtime till the medicine you took activzaates.

if you do beleeiev in it.....then you can actually see (in ur mind) , that when they are making rounds with their hand around you with the cloth and burnging cloth...you can see in mind layers of osmethign (dusty masks or somethign) off the face being attracted to the cloth like a magnet.......and you feel light after they do that. warm, cool,. it feels nice. wait catchign ur breth till they light up the cloth to se eif there is smell or not. and the joy you get twhen the doer declares seriosly."see...ther eis no smell...poor kid ....dishti tglindi" ..........and when there is no smell..........after the tikka ceremony .you get loads of pampering. You will be taken to bed or sofa..make you lie down and cover a blanket slolwy softly over you and king like trtmt till you fall asleep so i like to beleive int hese.

baaaaaaaa i can make even a single point extend to pages ..volumes. You can now guess how i passed with distinction from Madras Univ :bonk

 

I use to be a non-believer but once I had kids and saw it happening I turned into a believer. It could be my mother heart which is making me believe in it but I do!! When my son was younger he was a cutie and he would get "nazar" when ever someone will praise him or admire his big beautiful eyes. For sure he will cry & be restless , not eat, tummy aches and on & on. My other wise very happy Lo will be miserable. Than my mom taught me to do the procedure to take "nazar" off and just like that he will be fine. Same thing with my daughter.