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do u think online socializing has reducrd or affected ur inperson socializing?

Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by nmtkar123, Mar 2, 2010.

  1. nmtkar123

    nmtkar123 Senior IL'ite

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    hi friends,
    i have noticed that very few indian women r open to socializing if they bump into other indian women in grocery store or mall, for instance. i feel women find it easier to socialize online than hang out with someone or drop by for tea or just stop by to say hello! may be due to our busy lives or whatever reason. am i imagining or is this happening for real. wud luv to know what u all feel?
     
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  2. sirilu27

    sirilu27 New IL'ite

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    Hi nmtkar123

    I think Indian Women think twice before talking to a stranger desi coz we never know what kind of reaction we are going to get. If we talk with Goras, we can be sure that they will respond in a friendly manner.
    I once tried to speak to a Desi lady in a grocery shop but she kind of gave me a weird look ( just the way how we react in India when a stranger comes up and talks to you).Cant blame her though. That's the way we have been ever since.
    I never tried to do that again.But if someone comes up and talks to me I'll be more than happy to respond nicely ( it never happened though) :)

    Regards,
    Sirilu
     

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