Do Majority Of Them Consider Their Mother’s As The Care Takers Of Their Kids By Default.

mercyanburaj · Aug 3, 2016

beautifullife30 said: ↑

I think it should depend on situation.

In my case, my mom was left with a lot of time on her hands as soon as my dad expired and she was feeling lonely. My second one was a boon to her. She forgot her worries while caring for him.

Even now, there are days when I take care of my second one, she lies down alone in the room listening to songs and feeling sad. I hate to see her that way. So I push my second one towards her and she literally forgets every worry when with him.

however, I don't force her in staying with me just for the kids. She's free to go anywhere and do what she likes as long as she is happy. She visits my sister, her mom and sometimes she comes back even when the work there isn't compelted just to be with her grandkids here.

I think what we all need to do is to ensure each generation is happy in their choice. Forcing anybody is not good.
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This is completely different situation. But when parents are busy with their lives they have to be given the freedom of visiting their grandchildren whenever they wish. Not forcing them to take responsibility of grandchildren.

There are few incidents where there is fight between parents and children just because they didn't commit to take responsibility of grand children

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