Hi, I am married and living in US for 6 years , Have a 4 year old. Both me and dh working in IT. We have decided to leave US and settle in India in 2010, around May. My marriage is not exactly happy, so many issues with dh and inlaws. usual stuff about sending too much money, inlaws trying to control me, dh totally indifferent and uncaring etc. This weekend, I was sleeping and got up to use the bathroom at 12 midnight and heard DH talking with his parents about our decision to move to India. And he was inviting/forcing them to move in with us when we settle there. We havent talked about it or has he even told his desire to have his parents with us to me. Out of the blue he was calling his parents to move in with us permanently. They were kind of saying no, stating that I will fight/disrespect them etc etc and trashing me and my upbringing for 2 hours and dh was saying that I will have to adjust and live and he will straighten me etc etc ... I am confused, angry and totally down. Is this not a huge decision, can he take this major decision on his own ? What should I do please help ladies..