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Do Curses By Elders Actually Come True?

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by Needtobestrong, May 12, 2021.

  1. messedup

    messedup Platinum IL'ite

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    Reading Bhagvadgita is helping me these days to stay positive.
     
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    My husband who never take a glass of water on his own used to wake up early. Make kids ready for the school and drop them to the stop one by one as both had an hour difference in their school timings. :rolleyes:those were the days... And now :eek:
     
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  3. anika987

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    You know what really bothers..

    recently My distance relative lost 5 family members due to covid and lot of people are dying..life is so uncertain!
    who knows what could happen to anyone next..

    I just do not understand people like your inlaws and many who just find fun in taunting vulnerable people.

    All this career,money,respect,status,ego...what did one bring to leave anything ?All these do not mean much in this uncertain life.

    Take life per day and be happy..This is a difficult time and it must be very hard for you but try to find some happiness in this dark time.

    Maybe read good books,walking,prayers,good movies to keep you sane.Try to bring some positivity..

    This too shall pass.Your inlaws will leave in few months hopefully and am sure there will be a silver lining.
     
  4. WannabValerie

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    :clap2:

    Thankyou... We know that the recovery is 85% but yet the news and youtube has shown only one side and twisted my arm to beleive 'corona=death'
    Thankyou for this reassuring post.
    Still.... wear mask, sanatize and stay safe everyone!
     
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    Dear OP,
    If you could please try this. You should be very careful about your self talk compared to your Mil’s talk over your ears. Because you have only control over your self talk and not your MIL’s. Sincerely wishing you to have peace of mind dear. Hugs to you!

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    Last edited: May 14, 2021
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    This post is like high oxygen content fresh air :clapclap:.
     
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    Thank you friends for the inspiring replies..feeling somewhat better and reassured now..
     
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    Certainly that response of @Anusha2917 at #27 - I consider the
    most outstanding post of the type one that enlivens & elevate the depressed mood and boost up morale and confidence for those in similarly affected circumstances.
    I do not hesitate to nominate for the best post of the current month of May 2021.
    I doff my hat in the direction of @Anusha2917 .
     

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