Hi Ladies, I am single parented child, my father has second family and we don't have any connection with him. My mom raised me by working hard (she used to prepare and sell sweets) I finished engg, got job in MNC and got married to this guy. Marrying him is the worst decision I ever made in my life. His family is full of money minded, and there were lot many physical and verbal abuses from him and his family. From the second month of marriage itself they started talking about divorce. I believed things will change, but nothing changed at all. Meanwhile I became mom to 2 wonderful kids. He wasn't good father also. He is not ready to spend even a penny for kids. So right from marriage it's all me who is taking care of home and kids. Because of all his abusive nature, and no one at his home to take care of kids while am away for work, I decided to move back to my mom house. I told him not to come to my mom house as he beaten up my mom also on the street. We filed police complaint. Then I got onsite opportunity and I travelled to onsite leaving behind the kids with mom as he was not ready to sign the papers to take the kids with me. He sent mails to my two employers to fire me, sent mail to police in whichever country am working, he took my bank statement illegally thru his friend working in that bank to see how much am earning, and all abusive mails to me even cursing kids also, and himself/his mom planned for second marriage as well. I didn't proceed for divorce because I didn't want my kids to grow up like me without father. But after going thru all this, I started divorce process recently. I don't know whether this is right, but I feel like he should suffer for what he has done to me and my kids. Need your advice how to overcome this.