Hi, I'm new here and am certainly amazed at the level of discussion here. Some really nice people talking a lot of sense. Anyways, I am a guy, not married yet, but I somehow feel that with so much divorce around, what if I get a partner with whom I don't share a good chemistry and it all ends up in a divorce? I just get too scared and it makes me nitpick the bad qualities in a person. Is it really feasible in today's world to make such a commitment like marriage?