I'm at a stage where I'm pulling my hair out wondering where I went wrong. Today my adult kid had me make her dosa because she doesn't know how to make it crispy. When I asked her what she would do when I was gone she tells me she wouldn't make dosas at home, like that was always obvious. This is the general consensus and I'm in complete agreement. Thankfully there are others I can trust for my kids. I do want DD to be able to have her own opinion before consulting others if possible. Especially on matters related to finances.