Diary Post#1

Hi,
Following are the incidents which I came across in my life.

During my trips to places, I made a friend, who got married at 30+, He narrated his wife's brother's horror story. He was running between court+policestation+home. His wife had filed divorce and all the section in for dowry+harassment. Just not against him alone but also against his father, mother and his sister. It is almost 10 years over, the wife had moved on and is living with some other man as his wife(illegitimately.), but he could not get married since his divorce is yet to be granted.

Now my friend asked his bro-i-law to seet advice of a pundit, a horoscope reader, they went and met him. he saw both the horoscopes, and replied that you are literally living on the road, and your life should be in worst condition. He agreed, Now the pudit stated that, your wife's horoscope is a fake, It is a fraud one. Both of them were astonished. the pundit continued, A girl cannot be born at that particular time and at that particular location and lagna. Hence the pundit deduced that life should have been miserable for him. Now it was the pundit's turn to ask clarification.

My friend's bro-i-law narrated, his mother was seeing an alliance, a lady living the next street hearing this, asked the bridegroom's horoscope and a week later came up with her daughter's horoscope, stating that both matches, and they went ahead for marriage. On the day of the marriage, the agni kundam got blasted, after tying the knot when the bride entered into the house, the oil jar fell and broke into pieces, the bridge did not behave like a wife. day 1 she left her inlaws, Now after enquiring it was found that the girl was having a love life, and her parents had forced her into this marriage. Instead of parting in an amicable terms, the girls parents and the girl forged cases against the bridegroom's family, the girl left with her lover and was living as a defacto wife to him, But it was the bridegroom's family who suffered mentally a lot. Now after some home work, Things started to move in the right direction.

The judge called upon the bridegroom and stated that all the cases are foisted against his family and that better go for an divorce instead of proceeding cases against the girl. He was bit angry, reason being his innocent sister and his parents where humiliated, but the judge made see the light, and thus he came out of the mess.

Lastly I had heard that he was searching a bride.


Now some points to ponder about this mess:
The girl's family din't think even a second for ruining the life of another family members. two the girl din't hesitate twice to foister cases against the groom's family. One of the astrologer whom I had met stated that, every day he gets many cases from the girl's parents saying that change the horoscope, my girl is not gettign married, either she would have crossed 30+ or would have some dosha, My prompted a question? what will be the happen to the boy? he replied,, ''' that's his fate.' Either the marriage will end up as divorce or he might endup going uppp.

One of the regretting things which is taking place in india is grooming the children especially girl children(Not to conclude that boys are being brought up correctly). Now in olden days, it was a joint family, the girl had the stamina and the mental strength to withstand and make the family a success. Today it is not so. One of my relatives came up with a proposal for his daughter, condition was: after marriage the boys parents should not visit their son.