DH worries. Dont know how to handle it

Dear Friends,

Help me, I am so confused now.

I am 26 years old, I got married 1 1/2 years back. We don't have any kids.
My husband having PE problem which we recently come to know. We plan to take medical suggestion for this.

I have some confusion and I dont know whom to tell, so I am sharing with you friends.

Apart from this confusions, I'm very happy in my married life, we love each other very much.

1. My mom starts nagging to become pregnant soon, she asks me to go with her to check some gynaecologist. Definitely i cant tell our problem to her or any one. For time being, I gave some reasons to escape from her. I dont know what to do further.

2. Currently my DH works in western India, very far from our native.
Every time he talks to my in-laws, he will start to feel guilty as he cant take care of my MIL. My MIL is very nice person and she will not tell every small problems. But whenever she says casually that she is having hip pain or she caught cold, then my DH will get upset.

I dont what to do at this time, even if I console him, he will not get right. At least for 1 day he will be moody. I dont know how to handle this:spin

3. My DH is elder brother in his joint family. My brother-in-law (my DH's cousin) is going to get married soon. Now my DH starts to worry that since we married one year back, we should have baby first.
I feel that pregnancy should not be like preparing for exam in a hurry, but this worry gives me more mental pressure.

I am afraid that what if we cant get baby before his cousin. Will he get upset and feel inferior?

Friends, please help me, what I should do now, I am so confused..

 

Hi Mahajanpragati,

Thanks for your suggestion. Will do as like it.

Can you give Dr Chakarvaty's thread link, I couldnt find it in the Marriage forum.