Hello Everyone, I have been married since many years without kid....initially my husband job was upset then we were used to live with my inlaws. My inlaws blame me for his job lost....Then my dh start 1 year masters in his field in abroad .....where my sil was married..My inlaws are always greedy,cunning and many face people.Mil try her best to create misunderstanding between us.They spend their money on my sil's further study and my mil visit sil every year to support her for household work soo that she can study. Sil husband is super nice soo my inlaws took advantage of it......Now they expected me to cover my husband study expenses and our living expenses.....moreover pil expecting my parents to send money for dh study. soo they dont need to spend on my husband.....Irrespective of the matter my husband already given them his income to them ....that was sufficient for my husband study fees, but my inlaws consider that money their not ours. I worked hard to get job there and worked many hours as much as i can to cover household expenses since my husband was studying.Then at the end of my husband study they pressurize my husband to find job there near my sil as she was living there. Due to too much stress from family and job stress he start living silent and sad....that was worrying me.Then he suddenly start engaging himself into college activities and events to meet new people for business everyday....i understand for successful career in business field he need to be extrovert and social soo he was trying since he is basically not a talkative type of guy. Now my concern was his silence and keeping away from me all the time....i started feeling very lonely because there was no one from my side whom i can discuss with. Every time i called mil she ask me to call sil and give the type of knowledge ...what is the use of going there if you dont call her. my sil never called me. once i called she talk fine but if she want to talk she call my husband and give him different advises about how to find job and how save parents money.....bla bla....because she also want her parents should spend on my sil studies not on my husband....Dh not giving me any time and keeping himself on phones all the time and going out for events and games ...create a distance between us...and slowly create friction.....when he was about to finish his study within month....my sil and her husband leave mil to my house.....her perfect entry into our house put everything into mess.My husband stop talking to me...he talk when he urgently need to talk.. Suddenly my husband ask me that we need to move my sil house because he did not get job and his parents want him to move to Sil place.My sil and my relation was never good. Sil is my mother inlws's favorite child.I try many times to make my husband understand that we can manage to live separate if he cooperate ....but he seem like not to listen anything. I had to left my job and move with husband to sil place where my mil already living. my mil want me to find another job near sil place....she thinks job is like a joke you can leave and find anytime....I start feeling too much lonely and traped...mil and sil keep doing back biting about me.....i ask dh he can live there to look for job ...as i already lost my job can i go to India to visit parents as i was already feeling mentally exhausted ....he did not agree and he did not refuse ....then i got ticket to India.....for this news my mil was like got fire in her mind.she start giving me terrible comments ....that why iam going to visit my parents....she talk to me when i was alone and tell me that she will make sure that my husband would leave me once I left. I said her to do whatever is her wish. Because living there was exactly I was living in jail.I don't want to be there anymore time.but it was not like that I was leaving my dh as I already told my dh that I just need to visit my parents. Then I left for India and my parents was concerned about my in-laws because my fil did not come to pick me from airport as I called him . My parents and inlaws live in same city. I reached my parents house.I try calling my dh...he did not answer....I understood that mil and sil trying there best to break this relationship.one day my husband called himself....he was complaining that why I left for India and all that....I felt like he is in depression...so I did not react much ....one day dh called me and told me to go to in-laws place and when I try to tell him how fil and mil behaved me then he hang up.my mil came earlier to her house in India whereas my dh was still at sil place to look for job.when I reach India my fil badmouth about me and my parents and snach my passport and keep it to his house.so ladies there was little desire to continue this relationship and my passport was with fil. I left for in-laws house they ask me to live according to there conditions..and they( mil and fil) also mention that they don't want us(me and dh) to live together .They were actually prepared for divorce.but they are doing this for sake of their son...means allowing me to live with them....they ask me not to use phone and tablet in their house.....since my parents house was near somehow I managed and I did not have any choice..I used to pray god to show me my way.I was living with my in-laws suddenly I heard the news my dh is not getting job due to depression...and taking treatments at my sil place.he make up his mind to come to India ....once my husband came....my in-laws behave nicely ahead of my dh and taunt me when he is absent..As my dh and I was trying to go abroad...one day I heard the news that our visa is approved ......now country was different. I and my husband left for foreign land ....Thank god finally we start living independently.now we both are working here.my side family help us to settle there.Now when i got chance i told my dh that how mil and fil behaved me in his absence ....i did not told everything but the matter which was most concerned about....it was very hard for him to believe..!!.the day i tell him about his parents he took headache and sleeping pills ..!! he respond it that not all about their fault its your fault too , and he talk to his parents normally as he used to talk...now since lockdown i notices he is used to call mil everyday....ladies Iam getting depressed why he is calling every day to the person who dont want our relation to work...I can't say no to call but everyday is too much??....it is becoming unbearable for me. Please help me what should I do??