What kind of tools do you use to make decisions ? My DH never makes any decision . He just thinks if he doesn’t make any decision things will happen on its own . I’m exact opposite and don’t think much to make decisions .I recently understood that I blame myself if things go wrong because ultimately I make all the decisions . I really don’t want this to continue . I want to help both of us to learn this skill. The reason maybe he never got a chance in life to make decisions while my whole life from the time I was young I made all the decisions . I think it is important skill to develop . So what tools do you use to make decisions ? On an average how much research and time you invest on making decisions ? How much does friends and family play a role ? Do you use intuition to make decisions ?