ihave a neighbor who lives two homes away.she comes home every evening 4 days a week and stay for 2 to 3 hours.even if my dh comes home,she stays and hence the little time i get to talk with dh is gone and he does not want to eat dinner in front of her and waits till she leaves which is like 8.30 to 9 in the evening. Also,she overdoes stuff.despite me repeatedly telling her,she provides too much of food and dolls to dd and forces me to feel obligated. for eg: she drops her kids at without any notice and goes outing with her husband.she also sends her kids during weekends and i have no family time. thank god,i told her to avoid sending her kids during weekends.she also comes and stands beside me when I am cooking,feeding my dd and gives unsolicted opinions. to top it,she reprimands my dd as though she is her own kid.she does not call before coming and comes whenever she wishes. she is also very competitive with me.it all suffocates me a lot.i need some personal space. i remember this summer she wanted me to babysit her kids.so she very smartly asked " my kids want to babysit your kids(?) so they will be staying all day everyday during summer at your place.what say?" i somehow manged to get out of it.2 months everyday seems a bit too much for me. she also laughing says" you will do whatever anyone says.you are one sanyasini" this irritated me to the core! hence,i find myself absolutely refusing to help her even when i can. still she keeps asking,forcing me to obligate to her requests,dropping in as per she wants.it is suffocating me and dh.she does not even inform me that she is going out.she drops her kis and goes to gym with her husband and me putting off my work and babysittign them. how to deal with her?she is a neighbor and we might see each other often but hot to stop her from taking me for granted.