Hello Ladies, So here I am asking for your advice and would appreciate all the suggestions. I have been married for almost 4 years now. I will try to keep it short and to the point. I was going through a rough break up after 8 years of relationship when I met my husband . I was honest and told him everything since he was very much in love with me he was very understanding and ready to give support and time no matter how long it took -his words not mine. We became good friends and did court marriage in a hush hush!!(MIstake no 1) As I was dealing with depression and struggling with the past to let go I end up saying some really harsh stuff to him (mistake no2) . My ex kept calling and calling and as a matter of fact he still does now I chose to ignore and let it go but initially for 2 years yes i talked to him over the phone once in months (mistake no3) and if that counts as cheating on my marriage .. than sadly yes i did. My husband knew all this all the way I will tell him that i talked to my ex and so on and so forth. We talked sometimes we argued but we stuck together more because of families than us. I guess Recently i figured out, that whatever He told me about himself wasn't true like his education, family background isn't true and i found all this out not long ago. it sort of bothered me the whole lying part. I confronted him and he said i shouldn't be bothered with details. My point is i have been honest even though its coming back and biting me and he wasn't since beginning. In 2013 the whole marriage ceremony changed me, I finally woke up from my forever long sleep and realized what the heck i was doing and tried my best to make this marriage work with all my heart in it. In the mean while I was searching for work and nothing came up finally i found one, worked for 6 months contract everything became ok(same city we live now). I found another full time job shortly the first one was over in the city where his parents live and he always wanted to move there so I moved for 2 months with his parents and he was still trying to find a job to move there but couldn't find one. One day it just hit me that the distance is just breaking us apart so i decided to resign and move back immediately. And now here I am since the day i got back everything just went down the hill. I noticed it when I was away that either he is busy to call or out with his friends on weekends and it is still the same as I am writing this he is out somewhere playing golf! Things have changed dramatically Now he just gets up and throws everything on my face that how disgusting and worthless i am. There is nothing that he has left to say its more like he has build up everything against me for what i have done or not. What really shook me is last week he grabbed my hand and dragged me out the door to throw me out and he just stopped right at the door when i asked why would he do that to me - he said because he wanted to show me that I don't have any money and any place to go in the whole country and he wanted me to realize that. He has just flipped as a person and i am unable to decide what's real and what's not? i am not sure if this makes sense at all - but we don't talk at all unless we argue, forget being intimate or anything. I don't know if i should give it a chance to work or just walk out like he keeps telling me every day to do so. I am just confused the guy who promised everything he won't be turns out he is no different.