Hello Ladies. I have a friend who is close to me now for past 6 years, we even work together. At times i get treated badly like being excluded in some plans, not replying to my messages, being distracted on the phone while having lunch with me. But when she needs a shoulder to cry on or crib and vent she comes to me I try to discount it all as timely mood swings but at times i do feel hurt. I am confused if i should just not care and start distancing myself(which i can) or just be like i am and be there for her whenever she wants me ( which means i may keep getting hurt). Since we also work in the same office, i need to share a cordial relationship and not be hostile.