Hi Friends and Seniors, Here i give you my confusion, please help me find a solution for this. Me and my DH and DS live alone a bit near to my mom's and away from in-laws as my husband is deeply hurt by his mom. I am a working mom. He used to help me by vacuuming the house twice weekly and putting washing and keeping them in shelves. but for doing these, he used to pest me like once in a fortnight that he is doing al work. kitchen work, school work, groceries, vegs and fruits, dropping and picking my son from dance class, going to pediatrician, going to hospital for myself, everything I do myself alone.. my god, unluckily i have a twowheeler. It was manageable till 4 months ago, when i faced some difficulties in my job and i found it really stressful and thats when the problems rooted. my husband started saying to quit the job and pressing me to do housework. I can earn 30 bucks from home itself (actually a bit more than him, he earns less but multiplies well), dont know how he says, he started to ask me to quit job. I said no, as i had previously had a bad experience by quitting the job when i was newlymarried and then i decided not to quit job for stupid sake i accept that i should keep the house clean... i myself manage it about 75%, even with busy schedule, i will clean toilet once in fortnight, clean fridge once in a month, omg.. see i am managing 75%, he can manage that 25% na. that itself he is doing but he keeps on telling about that always.. i say, dont do any work, but that also he is not listening he keeps on rounding behind me wherever i finish my work and keeps on redoing things like wiping the stovetop, checking with bathroom.. i hate this... due to my work schedule and as i want to sleep, i may miss out a few things that makes no harm to anybody... but he is not accepting that. Thus for the choring. coming the emotional part. he says that he loves me a lot. wait... that he never says all times, but only when a fight arise or if he is drunk.. :bang.. he cares me.. yeah when i sleep in morning during night shifts, he never disturbs me yeah right... i need something more... but he never spks to me an extra word other than the daily usual things.. like food, paying bills thru online (as he does not know abt computer/internet), how much salary i would get (so that he can plan for next month). i need something more. that he never does. he keeps on yelling at small small things nowadays. see yesterday on sunday i was a bit loose in preparing brkfast, he knows thats the only day off, but still he shouted at me. and today i somehow missed one fruit that ws rotten in the shelf with drosophila around. for that he started yelling. morning i asked him to put shoes and drop him at gate for that he shouted. really dont know what to do. how to manage. pls help me frds... if u want more detailing, i will give you.