Re: Lousy BS SIL ! My only point of mentioning fair was everybody else in my in laws family are dark.It didnt mean ugly. Once I did as you told to my FIL that I wont take any nonsense from him or his daughter. That didnt stop my FIL. But my SIL ,I am happy she hasnt tried it again. Although I must say given an interaction b/n her and my husband anytime her sole aim is to see to it that my husband separates from me.She keeps the spice in my life. Also if left to her decision my husband although being smart will end working in an ordinary job in India with no career ambitions .She has ruined everybody in her family to have no career ambitions and her target is my husband now.becoz everybody else she cud ruin successfully apart from my husband.