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Code Language Between You And Your Dh

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by akshaya452, Jan 29, 2018.

  1. akshaya452

    akshaya452 Silver IL'ite

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    Hello IL Sisters ,
    This morning something shocking strike my mind .


    What is the code language that is secret code between you and your DH. I am
    Sure we all use different secret code or words for different purpose .

    Hoping to hear all the funny and naughty ones too.
     
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  2. yellowmango

    yellowmango IL Hall of Fame

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    Over two decades of marriage....there is no code now.
    There is telepathy.
    Same thoughts going on in two minds at the same time .Same words coming out of the mouth. :sconf::rolleye:
     
  3. akshaya452

    akshaya452 Silver IL'ite

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    Telepathy and sign language is really fun .


    1) When others are around us. It’s an amazing feeling when those 2 adorable blinky eyes of my DH check me out more often than usual.

    2) When we are at a birthday party or private event. I love the way he asks my permission to go back home .

    3) at home when watching movie with friends and something romantic shows up on TV . I like the way those wild kinky eyes pretend to eat me and swallow me bit by bit. I can sense the expression and his desire to give me a warm tight hug.


    4) when We have to go out to attend a party or event and I spend hours to get ready and put on some glittering clothes and also make up and red lipstick and we eventually are short on time .so we yell at each other and blame one and another for the delay.

    But when we hop in to the car, I sit in the back seat to accompany my kiddo. He stares and sends flying kisses at me in the rear mirror.

    And when it’s time to hop out of car at destination . He will not miss any opportunity to get a kiss from me and also immense me with his praising words

    More to come.But really looking forward for more inputs from other IL Sisters.
     
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  4. JustAnotherMom

    JustAnotherMom Platinum IL'ite

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    No code, At times even when I open my mouth and tell he doesn't get it :smash2:
     
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    akshaya452 Silver IL'ite

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    It’s ok , it happens with everyone. Make him
    Embarrassed once or twice in front of close friend or family members . Then he will realize the purpose of secret code words .
     
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    anuyogam1988 Gold IL'ite

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    We have crazy secret codes only for romantic stuffs which I can’t even post here/anywhere
     
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    akshaya452 Silver IL'ite

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    Sure you will find few funny ones that you could think under rated can be posted here.

    Or change the code and tell the reason for the code
     
  8. JustAnotherMom

    JustAnotherMom Platinum IL'ite

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    You must be a new bride:tongueout: or someone never give up :)
     
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    akshaya452 Silver IL'ite

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    Not new bride . I am mother of 2 year old. Yes I never give up easily .

    I personally feel men go to work and stressed and get distracted with many other things at work. Like pressure at work or money or other unknown reasons . So it is our responsibility to be on top of this to entice our marriage relationship .

    As a girl, lady and now as a woman - females are always are taken for granted in many situations in our life. then why not we take a step forward and initiate ourself and take the first step in our own married life for our own benefit .

    I personally know how to get my wishes fulfilled through him. I trick and make him feel lovable and evenetually he fall for me and he will Be behind me all around the house for something or the other .
     
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    shravs3 Finest Post Winner

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    Please give some tips for newly married ones :cheer:
     
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