I have 2 kids at home - 1 yr old and 5 yr and we both are working. Life is so hard right now. My H has meetings whole day so no help from him. I take care of both of them + can not pay attention to my work and meetings/discussions etc at all. It is understandable to be slow at work but it is getting very hard. Then cooking , feeding them and dishes etc.. I feel like machine right now. My H wants to be bring cleaners at home and always fuss about clean. I am not worried about that yet. Then nanny. He himself does nothing but on my case, to talk to nanny (desi)...All are worried and no one probably wants to go to someone's house. Then he keeps threatening me, we will get someone from care.com... My older one does not eat or do anything by herself. Then younger one is still baby so has to be fed, diapered, cleaned, changed, etc too..carry him here to there.. He does not want to stay inside and wants to go out all the time. How are you managing? Any external help? I am thinking to start freezing meals etc. But problem with my older one is picky and younger one too. Also I feel pain cooking bulk at one time and my weekends, i get super tired because brain does not get any rest.