Hi All, Last week was my cousin brother's wedding. It was the first boy wedding in ur family after my wedding. As you all know we can enjoy more in a boy's wedding,this one also was not an exception. but i felt they were many differences in the way I enjoyed now to the one wedding brother's wedding before my marriage. In this wedding I always had to see that my DH & his family are well taken care of. always accompany DH & see to it that he is fine with everything. My family was taking care of him but even I had to be extra cautious coz my DH notices everything a lot. due to all this i was stuck with him most of the time, taking care of my DD & see to it my MIL had food etc. After the wedding got over, I felt that I didn't enjoy it as I used to do before. We all cousins used to just be bothered about what we are wearing, dancing, eating, pulling each other's legs, see who all guests have come & enjoy every bit of all the celebrations. But this time I was not able to do most of the things. Then I thought when a Girl gets responsibilities on her she has to take care of many things.previously just tell your parents I want to wear this & buy us this. Dress your best & enjoy the happenings without thinking about anything. I had to plan my dresses, my DD dresses & my DH dresses. by the time i used to dress my DD only I used to damn tired. very less interest in getting ready. In the party see to it that my DH is comfortable. Take care of DD & see that she is safe with who ever she is. I was seeing my other girl unmarried cousins & the way they were enjoying. just recollected all my days & missed it so much. just wanted to share my feelings with you all... Cheers!!!