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Change Is A Part Of Life

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by iyerviji, Jun 7, 2020.

  1. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    All the best things in life are not meant to last. Things really change and so do people. You can never hold on to something forever. So, whether we like it or not, we must have to accept things as possible. In short, 'learn to live and to let go.'

    Whether we like it or not we have to do some things. We have to go to school to be well educated and earn a living after we grow up . Now a days education has become a must , even girls should be well educated guys need working woman

    Woman have to cook everyday whether they like it or not , they have no retirement from kitchen , though some get retirement after the dil comes but still they dont like to give up cooking . They want to cook for their family.

    Whether they like it or not workers have to go for construction work that too in the hot sun. We can tdo without fan , after going out immediatley we come home and sit under the fan. But the whole day they have to work as that is their living

    Sometimes our greatest blessing are the prayers god doesn't answer because he knows thats not whats best for us whether we like it or not.

    Sometimes you have to through a phase whether you like it or not
    Death is a part of all our lives. Whether we like it or not, it is bound to happen. Instead of avoiding thinking about it, it is better to understand its meaning. We all have the same body, the same human flesh, and therefore we will all die. There is a big difference, of course, between natural death and accidental death, but basically death will come sooner or later. If from the beginning your attitude is 'Yes, death is part of our lives,' then it may be easier to face.
     
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    priyakannan Senior IL'ite

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    Hi dear,
    Change is a part of life is a life secret which we need to fix in our mind and live around it. For me personally I see the life is like a journey which we go through like train or bus travel when your stop comes we need to get down. What matters is how we enjoy the journey watching the nature, making a effort to understand the human and living being around us. What makes us difficult is we always believe the things we have will be ours through out the journey fortunately it is not, understand this secret then life is beautiful. Don't worry or focus on end of life but enjoy the journey, life will be beautiful. Trust the Divine soul in life will guide us the beautiful phase of journey and accept the change with Grace than we complain on it. All the best.
     
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    sociallifein30s Silver IL'ite

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    This is a nice thread and a good wake up call.
    Many girls like me who have relationship failures with the one that we like. And cannot see the one that likes us.
    Love failures and moving on is a struggle for me now. Im sure there are many others out there who are struggling to move on. Good thread
     
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    HariLakhera Finest Post Winner

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    As they say, the only thing permanent is change! So, like or not, do it. The saying is if one has do it, do it with a smile as tears are not going to help. There are certain thigs that cannot be changed or need not be changed for the heck of it but there are things that need change and this is how society progresses. There will always be people who will be called rebels or misguided but sometimes these very rebels become the icons.
     
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    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Thanks for your thought provoking feedback
    I have nominated your post.
     
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    Glad you liked the thread
     
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    Thanks for your lovely feedback
     
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    Yes,death is part of one's life. We read so many books, Gita and philosophical texts. Inspite of being aware of the reality, we don't welcome death whole heartedly. There is hesitation in accepting the reality and it pricks and pains us.The maturity we get on receiving the death news of near and dear is aptly called'smasaana vairagyam' as it disappears within a few days and we start thinking that our lives are permanent.

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    :hello:@iyerviji
    Listing few examples as to what is necessary between progressive or and regressive change(s) in life and extinguishing of it, you have carved out a short and lucid essay, outlining the way to approach death without the need to repine.

    The magic fades too fast
    the scent of summer never lasts
    the nights turn hollow and vast
    but nothing remains...nothing lasts.”
    ― Sanober Khan
    God has bestowed Nature with constant changes like seasons, like monsoon, like gestation period among lives read species. There is a positive constructed by Him in every form static or and dynamic changes . Idli or dosa dough changes over time with yeast bacteria. A menstrual cycle for cleaning and preparation for future production, a metabolism varying with age to cope with changing body needs or structure.....a day changes at twilight to night..... without theses changes in Nature, life would be miserable.

    Changes definitely make mankind to adapt and that is how from old Stone Age to present age, species including man survived. Geriatrics helped lengthening life and taught aging gracefully.

    Quite true. Prayers are always answered by Him but at the good time chosen by Him. When prayers are not instantly rewarded, it is natural for one to curse God. But passage of time makes one repent later for having cursed when a solution arrives at a different time from hitherto unknown sources.

    Evolution to a higher plane of living is achieved only by successive births and deaths. None can postpone death as per his or her wish. It is better to keep as often as possible chant name of God, so that by force of habit he or she might utter the same when end comes which is believed to be good for the departing soul.

    In the context of departing soul, There seems to be no difference. But in physical terms, approach to dead person - yes there is difference. Many in present days turn donors and dead persons’ organs harvested and forwarded through green corridor to far off destinations where a patient needing a transplant awaits it.

    Your conclusion is inescapable!
    Thanks and Regards.

    God let Markandeyans to live for ever in the hearts of devotees.
     
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    Very right Madam, you wrote awesome.
    Stay blessed and always inspire us
     

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