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can you talk about sex with your fiance?

Discussion in 'Intimacy' started by whiteorchid, Sep 21, 2011.

  1. Yathriga

    Yathriga Silver IL'ite

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    What wrong in involving emotional? Dont hesitate girl. Come on! There is no love without lust. Hope you understand.

    For the respect thing...Not all the men are care and affectionate before marriage. You guys don't even know each other. His and your's - ways of life is totally different. You will not understand each other completely on a phone call right? Then how you jump in to a conclusion that, he is not showing respect/care/affectionate on you.
    His way of showing respect/care might be different. He might thinks that you are not respecting him coz your way is different. Hope you understands.
    Even when you got married, it will take long to understand each other. Take your time and let the time will do the thing. Till that you enjoy the life.
     
  2. sparkly

    sparkly Bronze IL'ite

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    its absolutly normal dear..enjoy this time..in a way it is very helpful in being comfortable with your husband on first few days and nights..you can understand what i am trying to say..in arrange marriage these talks can ease you out..and you will not panic at the time..and there is nothing wrong in discussing all this ..enjoy every phase and moment..this time will never come back..and you will always miss the time and conversations you will have now..after marriage there will be a different story.
     
  3. Tashsin

    Tashsin Gold IL'ite

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    This is very normal and common..everyone is waiting for this moment for a long..to share with someone..if want to know ur isn't rest for honeymoon and kids...I don't feel something wrong..enjoy this time..
    Time between engagement to wedding is very precious...
     
  4. bhavatarini

    bhavatarini Silver IL'ite

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    Its very normal .. please enjoy this phase !
     

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