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Can You Change Your Destiny ?

Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by shravs3, Sep 24, 2018.

  1. Rakhii

    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    @shravs3 interesting question. I think the answer would depend on if you believe in destiny or not. I have conflicting opinion about this. How would you know what the destiny is? We didnt come with a manual to tell us what our future should look like. Anything that happens to us is technically destiny.
     
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    SinghManisha Platinum IL'ite

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    No you cannot change destiny. But it really helps to go with the flow. We can hope for the best but god has his own plans.
     
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    Creators Partiality towards his creatures :lol:;)
     
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    Adharv Gold IL'ite

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    Cost cutting on printing the manuals hahahah, that was good one. @Rakhii madam ji. :thumbsup:
    :confundio1::confundio1: why does it happen that way???
     
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    @Amulet
    This is very logical, something which I have never heard before....thank you for sharing the info :thumbsup: I am not really sure if it is followed strictly these days.

    good one. :thumbup: when I have toiled so much in the current birth to get this AR....let me materialize it in the current birth itself...when I have the potential to earn in the CB I will definitely put my potential in the next birth provided "I have the next life" I guess you might now say if I don't have the next life I would be blessed to materialize it in the current life.
    Also this would give a full stop to the unwanted comparison (I mean if there is no credit and bf opportunities) and J feel b/w my fellow beings...what did he/she do to get such good life? I can't go and tell its brought forward from the past..because I have no proofs...Agree we don't have to prove it but by should we let their feelings down and make them guilty that they have done something wrong...maybe if the sin is something not related to present it would be even more hurting...we might feel we are being punished for no mistake of ours....Or should we tell them this is all the gifts ur recving for unknown bad karmas done in the past??? I think punishing on spot for the wrong deeds would relive note taker of Karma...

    :lol::lol: I liked your responses. as mentioned in my comment, each one of us will have our views per our understanding. I respect your views, maybe ur analysis might be correct. When I reach Helven I would try to discuss this provided we have such opportunities :mask:

    these books are older than our apps...which means our apps are built using these books....:hello:

    Regarding the zodiac I perfectly agree and no second thought. Concerned abt the ones u bcme pray to the words of bad astrologers.

    Thank you for taking time to answer my questions in detail. Good night.
     
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  6. Rakhii

    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    Because it has to happen some way. It just does. It has no rhyme. Reminds me of Meghan Markle. Oh nothing she does is wrong; she grants you an interview, she is called humble. She doesn't, then she is busy dealing with issues relating to world peace, let her be. There is no such thing called destiny. Its a simple cause-effect principle.

    We need to find a way to pacify ourselves. So we invented destiny. **** happened. yes, must be your destiny.
     
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    When something good happen to us effortlessly we call it 'luck' when we make efforts and see result we call it 'hardwork',when nothing goes right or as planned we call it 'destiny.'

    Can you change your destiny? Very well yes- yet its subjective.
     
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    @shravs3,

    I went to Hindu religious school, praying was part of hourly activity and there was a weekly Friday Bajan at the end, followed by Swamij's speech.

    Still, the habit of praying sticks with me many times during the day. It became a discipline and it does have that calming affect. Does it change the fate, karma? I don't think so, we are born with per written destiny.

    For sure, it gives that patience, tolerance, calming effect to move on as if someone is watching over / holding my hands. There were times when the circumstances didn't go well as expected, it gives me the strength to accept the fact, and move on.

    I strongly believe in even to pray / think of Him in time of need, you need His help.
     
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    Thanks @Rakhii for the reply. You are right I feel somethings cannot be questioned / answered :rolleye:

    Could be :confundio1:
     
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    Very true @BerryPine. They say we remember God only when we are in need. :rolleyes:
     

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