Can This Be Called As An Act Of Abuse?

Guys....

I have taken countless efforts, when I was single to resolve the conflict between my father and mother. In my 20s, while I was in college, I stayed in hostel. Once in 15 days, I will go to my native place, which was about 80 km from my college City. During that time for about five long years, I have repeatedly attempted to Reconcile between their differences. Every such attempt of me has backfired on to me instead of giving any better results.

After I got married, then also during my every visit to my hometown , I have made some attempts to resolve their differences. But these genuine efforts of me, have very very badly backfired to myself and to my wife also.

At last, after about 10 years of my marriage , my father took me for a walk and he spoke to me alone. He said his life and his marriage is over and it's a matter of the past. According to him, I have enough to worry about in my own life, my own relationship with my wife, my son , my job, my future, my career, my post graduation... the list goes on endlessly.

He made it very clear , the more I try to resolve the conflict between them, the worse the results are going to be.

Out of all love and affection and pure compassion, he advised me to stay away from their conflict and to bother about my own life only.

Since then, I stay away from their conflict.

 

The purpose for which, I started this thread is totally served and I am fully satisfied with the reply and participation of every member.

Requesting @Cheeniya Sir , to close this thread.

Thank you, guys !