Can someone please tell this man... what pregnancy is.

A Few Men give bad name to all...

Sorry folks, i usually don't cross post. But this one deserved to be cross posted.

I read the below post in a forum. I just can't believe the comments/ contents of the post.

Better let you all read it.

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Query from: Anonymous, New Jersey, 01/11/08
Topic: MARRIAGE Submitted on: Ammas . com

Subject: Why Does My Wife Complain Too Much?

Dear Friends, my wife is pregnant for the third time in three years. I warned her CLEARLY not to put me through the hell she did the first two times. (But I needed a son so I made her pregnant) But she cannot listen. I am ready to be free of her!

Each and every time she's pregnant, A- she makes too many medical bills. She expects to be seen by a doctor EVERY MONTH. Now can you PLEASE tell me... who is seen by a doctor monthly?? She's PREGNANT, not has a CANCER. I explain her totally that the doctors are expecting to make some good money out of her foolishness but she still insist. She told the doctor and he told me the same, but *of course* the doctor will want to make this extra money!

Another thing is she keeps complaining. She goes on about hurting feet, unable to breath, so tired, nausea, ect. I cannot believe the level as she complaints. She isn't cooking anything these days, using some nausea excuses. I am HUNGRY and tired of eating outside. We are already spending way too much money on the DOCTOR. She keeps complaining to me that please let her mother come help her. I won't pay for that as my own mother offered to come. She won't say yes as she does not like my mother.

See. I am not just basing this on my own thinkings. I am a man and I cannot get pregnant. But even my own mother never had such a trouble in her pregnancy. She never complained and she fixed a wonderful food EVERY DAY. Even she explained my wife that her tiredness is from bad habit of expectation of pampering in pregnancy. My mother explained me everything, that my wife is not doing duty by constantly being sick and complaining. I belief my mother before my wife!

How can I jumpstart this lady??? I am willing to move out and let her handle her life if she cannot change and start cooking and cleaning as wife is purpose to do. Tell me what words I can use to her to move her bad attitude. I don't like to beat a woman but I think this time maybe it might help.
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I really felt bad reading this. I heart goes out to the Poor girl... what is she going through everyday....

If i ever see this guy face to face, I know exactly where to kick him.

 

ha ha ha... good one Uma. To be frank if that law was implemented, lot of men would be sooooo careful in their attitude to fellow humans in particular to women.

Ria2006, i agree with you. His Mother needs to be put in place as well. In Many occasions its women that are more damaging to women than men.
His mother plays a vital role in his character towards his wife. A mothers role is not just to feed the kids, but also teach their kids to respect women.