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can regular domestic violence issues can be solved ...without breaking ur marriage?

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  1. Laaya

    Laaya New IL'ite

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    IL pls share your experiences how a married lady can stop domestic violence . Unconsentful sex by husband..isn't this crime & mental abuse,how can it be dealt...is this alarming...can something be done so that the DH gets the strong msg too and marriage is also saved..or taking a divorce/walkng out of relationship is only way.
     
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  2. flowerlady

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    Re: can regular domestic violence issues can be solved ...without breaking ur marria

    Dear Laaya,
    One can instill fear in H's mind by quoting Protection of Women from domestic violence Act , he can get in real trouble with law , he may reform .
    Of 258A is stronger but he will go to jail for sure.
    Best is to get financially independent so that H is not needed or feared.
     
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    Re: can regular domestic violence issues can be solved ...without breaking ur marria

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    Re: can regular domestic violence issues can be solved ...without breaking ur marria

    Fear of consequences is a deterrent.
    But from the description you have given of that inhumane and depraved man, I have no hope.

    Laaya,
    Welcome to indusladies. Please avoid writing in SMS / chat style lingo as it is against forum ettiquette.
    Please use proper spelling to avoid your posts from getting auto moderated by the system.
     
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    Re: can regular domestic violence issues can be solved ...without breaking ur marria

    Hi Laaya,

    Domestic violence is something which you should take seriously. How long have you been married? IMO, when ever there is a physical assault for the first time itself, the matter should be brought in public and you shouldn't be hiding it within the four walls just to preserve the marriage. By hiding you are making matter worse.
    If still after legal and family intervention, his violent behavior continues, then it's foolishness on your part to continue with this marriage. You will be better off without him.
     
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