Can a mother behave like this??

there is only so much any person can accept..and here we are talking about mil being on a verbal diarrhea about her son-in-law.. will the son in law accept it calmly, will he not question his wife, how come you are allowing your mom to talk so badly about me, just pack your bags and get out of there this moment.. some things need to be done with patience and care..this is one such relation.. you don't want to sabotage that understanding and accomodative aspect that is so good in your husband...

you are welcome..and learn this lesson, you are hit on the head only as long as you bend your head, it takes more strength to jump and reach your head when you stand up tall.. so learn to stand up for yourself, be it in the case of your mother or anything else, do not give the power to another person to hurt you.. these are small lessons we learn with what life doles out...

 

I sincerely hope that your kid doesn't get traumatized living in this toxic envt.

OP, time for you to move..

 

As a mother, your mom should have asked you to go and stay with your husband. Instead she is asking you to separate from him. She should be feeling guilty about it.
Fulfill your responsibility as a wife and mother now. Your son needs to bond with his father.
How come your husband is silent to all this? Is he not asking you to join him?

 

Dear,

Please do not think about suicide. Think about living your life with your husband and kid. Did you discuss these things with your brother? What's his take on this? Does your mother have relatives at her native place? You have a kid and it's not good for you and the kid to stay away from your husband.

It's definitely not right on her part to verbally abuse your husband who in no way is associated with the arguments you had. Please start preparing your mother that you are joining your husband shortly.

 

yes! not all "Mothers" in this world are angels, few are evil. you could never please her with your service instead give her some privacy and move on with your life, a minimal contact would keep this relationship healthy.

 

Vent,
few mom's are like the one you and I have ( i can relate with u quite a bit) pls pack you bags and leave with ur kid, be there for her just abt when she needs u for her health, rest of the things let her do on her own, she wud crib, maybe even go down to the extent of cursing n swearing .... but dont bother dont feel guilty go ahead with ur life