Can A Marriage Survive Without Intimacy??

hello everyone
I Have been married since 6 years .we don't have kids. During initial years of marriage dh was struggling in his career so he was not in favor of planning a kid. But thing i want to tell here that we are always lacking physical intimacy.I try all the way to keep him happy but no use. he is the type of person who is very rigid & reserved and always like to have his own time.sometime it seems like he is not able to do anything but he blame everything on me by saying that " i am not co operating with him much during bed time. I am a working woman. my parents will not cooperate with me if i leave him and threaten me that they will break all the relationship with me if i leave my husband.whenever i talk to him about this he blame me that "during initial years of marriage i put him away in anger" that reduce intimacy, which is not true.he make false excuses and dont want to see doctor. last night we were trying for intimacy, he was trying for different positions ,then he hit me on my upper back during sex.When i fought with him over this, he said he just touch me and it is not hitting.I said its rude then he make drama that he found a lot of things in me rude then what.Ladies i dont know whether my husband is normal or not but one thing is sure my life is spoiled.another thing i can never have a kid.

if i talk about my inlaws they are the worst people on the earth.i cant expect anything from them.during initial years of marriage they made lots of misunderstanding b/w us.but now we are living awayfrom them.

Please reply what is your opinion on my issue. Is there anything which i can do to live normal life??
Thanks in advance.

 

Needtobestrong...initial 1-2years was fine with him....he was totally different person at that time and he supports me sometime ahead of mil. he help me in household chores sometime when I feel sick or low.he take me to my parents house to meet them if he knows that I am missing them.he try to make good impression on my parents....

But life is not always same.....yes we had issues regarding intimacy....which was not much concerned intially....it is most stressful when people ask for kid now...even parents too. In Indian society no matter who has issue everybody blame women only.specially his parents are awful.

My concern is I feel like brother sister relationship rather than husband wife relationship.....

 

ImHuman....as I said in above post. Initial 1-2 years of marriage was fine.he supported me ahead of my in-laws.he helped me in household chores if I feel sick or low, even he is doing house hold help these day too.he made good impression on my parents.he helped me for my career growth.

But with time he changes...now he don't bother it, when inlaws say something mean to me.but he still help me in other prospects as I mentioned above.
Issues comes up when everyone ask for child and his parents too.we try to make it but everytime we engage in intimacy we end up in big fight which continues many days.he blame me for for not having intimacy and I feel he need to see doctor.
Now a days I feel our relationship like bother sister more than husband wife.
I am ok to compromise a kid if he feel the same too but unfortunately he does not feel same.he miserably fail to understand my feelings too.

 

DDream.. I don't want to leave him just because of sex.I don't need someone who is good in bed and bad in real life.I need much more than sex.
After two years of marriage what happened it's a long story.but I give brief.we had a temporary separation for around 6 months.That decision was mine.I took that decision because I was feeling overwhelming by inlaws.I felt difficult life without him...and I sense he feel too but he is not that expressive.but things change gradually after that.

He touch, he kiss ,he cuddle ....but does not usually proceed after this.once I ask him openly that why can't he do sex often he says he got tired from work and does not have power to do anything.he is workholic person I know that.

For medical issue I am undergoing all the fertility tests...so far is ok but did not recieved all the results yet.my concern is he is soo afraid to see the doctor.he did a test there were some problem his sperms ,doctor ask him to meet,but he did go back to see doctor.he want a child but don't want to do anything by himself.He has to take capsule for power and energy for intimate time.