hello everyone I Have been married since 6 years .we don't have kids. During initial years of marriage dh was struggling in his career so he was not in favor of planning a kid. But thing i want to tell here that we are always lacking physical intimacy.I try all the way to keep him happy but no use. he is the type of person who is very rigid & reserved and always like to have his own time.sometime it seems like he is not able to do anything but he blame everything on me by saying that " i am not co operating with him much during bed time. I am a working woman. my parents will not cooperate with me if i leave him and threaten me that they will break all the relationship with me if i leave my husband.whenever i talk to him about this he blame me that "during initial years of marriage i put him away in anger" that reduce intimacy, which is not true.he make false excuses and dont want to see doctor. last night we were trying for intimacy, he was trying for different positions ,then he hit me on my upper back during sex.When i fought with him over this, he said he just touch me and it is not hitting.I said its rude then he make drama that he found a lot of things in me rude then what.Ladies i dont know whether my husband is normal or not but one thing is sure my life is spoiled.another thing i can never have a kid. if i talk about my inlaws they are the worst people on the earth.i cant expect anything from them.during initial years of marriage they made lots of misunderstanding b/w us.but now we are living awayfrom them. Please reply what is your opinion on my issue. Is there anything which i can do to live normal life?? Thanks in advance.