Many threads in Relationship forum are often about the struggle the woman is facing to achieve some basics in the marriage, such as mutual respect and equality. In the past, roles in marriage were more clearly defined and separate. Fulfilling those roles automatically begot the desired respect and some version of equality. Marriage and relationship now are more hazy and evolving. - If a woman feels the mutual respect is missing or less in her marriage, what steps can she take to begin to fix that? And the touchier thingie: equality. Each relationship is different. - If a woman feels her marriage is terribly unequal in many aspects, what can she do about it? Feel free to share you thoughts on the above. Don't worry about defending your opinion or suggestions - just share. On such topics, opinions can vary a lot. Our views are formed as we reflect on life through the prism of our own experiences.