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Brother`s marriage issue

Discussion in 'Parents & Siblings' started by Pontu, Feb 8, 2010.

  1. Keerthu

    Keerthu New IL'ite

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    Pontu,

    The problem with many people who opt for love marriages is they think only about the present circumstance but they do not foresee how the future is going to be.When they realise later it is too late.

    I am not against love marriages but people should think from parents point of view as well.The society is definitely not important to us but parents are.They should be happy with our decision.If not happy atleast satisfied.We cant close our eyes and make decisions.Parents and siblings are very important.They have been there for us always.We cant forget them because we are in love.One should not let their parents down because he/she is in love.

    These inter religion marriages look very inspiring when watching movies..but reality is far different.

    Even if they get married they will face lot of issues and its gonna be a rough road all throughout.

    Please make your brother understand.
     
  2. Baruv

    Baruv New IL'ite

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    Hi Pontu,
    See if the girl is good,hardworking and is from a decent family.For a while keep your brother far .... . Then give a go ahead after knowing what your husband thinks or whatever parents thoughts are about the girl. If the girl is good,she will try to manage your parents.Don't trust the girl yourself unless you speak to her and get convinced that she will be able to adjust in your family. Education,politeness,honesty matter and not just love is enough to get married.
    Go to times of India...life section and you will get to know what relationships are.
    Baru
     

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