Brother Marriage Getting Delayed

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  1. griget

    griget Bronze IL'ite

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    Hi,

    I am posting after a long time and this portal has been so help ful when i need an advice, solution for a problem, etc.....

    Today i am here seeking for help from all of you if you can suggest me some pooja, parayana and any other to help get my brother married. It is getting very delayed and not sure why it is happening.
    By gods grace he completed his education and working in the field of his study. Not understanding what to do and spending sleepless nights. parents are very very worried.

    Thanks in advance.
     
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  2. joylokhi

    joylokhi Platinum IL'ite

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    There are innumerable pariharams(remedies) that can be done to ward off effects of delay in marriage settlement. Just a blanket suggestion without knowing the real issues, would not be of help. If u and your family believe in astrology , u can ask the astrologer himself(a proper one from experience) to see whether there are any horoscopic indications of delayed marriage such as rahu / kethu position, second /seventh house planet issues etc.
    and do the pariharams accordingly.
    As a general measure, I can suggest a visit to the Tirumanancheri temple in south india if feasible - they will tell the steps to be followed. It has worked well for my sons marriage , maybe alongwith other factors such as reciting of Durga sapthasathi slokam during rahu kala .
    Doing sashthi vrutham and doing parayanam of kanda shasthi on tuesdays and shasthi days is also an excellent remedy.
    All the best.
     
  3. Thyagarajan

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    The suggestion for rom @joylokhi above could be tried.
    2. I had been there and heard from many visitors there that they had come to thank the Lord for granting wedlock to them.
    3. Brihaspati- renowned in IL - official astrologer too can be approached with details of son’s birth time, birth place , date of birth. He has been guiding IL’ites for over decades regarding marriage, job prospects, displacements relocations etc .
    4. Athura another astrologer in IL CAN HELP BY FURNISHING time place date of birth.
    Approach to any one of them only. His link
    Interpretation Of Dreams, Saguna, Muhurtha, Nimitham, Lizard Sounds Etc
     
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    Yes.. six years since your brother got F1 visa to USA:
    Is he still in America?
    Location, location, location are the top three things in marriage alliances.
    And then, what he wants is the next thing.
    What are all the efforts you/your-family had taken so far?
    What are the efforts your brother had taken so far?

    Please give background information. There are many online puja options these days.

    If he is still in America, make sure you verify with him before puja's and so forth. Children grow up differently than we think they do.
     
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  5. griget

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    Thanks all for replying back.

    Yes my brother is still in USA, completed his studies and working.
    we are from Andrapradesh and right now travelling to Tirumanancheri temple not sure can we do it or not as you all know the situations everywhere.
    I will let my parents know to read the Durga sapthasathi slokam and parayanam of kanda shasthi on tuesdays.
    we shared his profile to few marriage bureau and registered online too but none of them are progressing.

    Praying hard and looking for gods grace.

    thanks.
     
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    This is good, as the saying goes...."God helps those who help themselves", or "Fortune favors the well prepared".
    • Increase the number of places where his profile is displayed -- both free and subscription sites.
    • Relax your filters* so as to get more possible matches. *Filters are Money, Looks, Education, Employment, Location, Family Connections, Language, Religion, Community, Caste, Sub-Caste
    • Ask your brother to join a few match-making sites where he will be the contact, and not anyone in the family. A direct approach may yield faster results.
     
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    Can someone help me find the address of this temple. We are desperate about our relative too. !
     
  8. AppuMom

    AppuMom Gold IL'ite

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    I would suggest a practical remedy ..if your brother or parents can afford,please help or donate an orphan girl's marriage expenses.
    My mom long back supported financially and emotionally to get one stranded girl (her dad passed away and mom was mentally disabled) to get marry my uncle and after decades, we daughters marriages happened without any hiccups and efforts..
    One of my relative used to avoid going to marriages or bless the bride groom citing silly reasons like they didn't do proper invitation,only sent card or marrying out of caste etc ...His son is 37 and not yet married..so not only purva janma karma ,current Karman also affect us..
     
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    Sorry my mom has done all her cousins marriages. Her cousins were 29 and above they could not get married. Everyone of them finally got married after visiting us and my mom did everything with her own hand cooking calling brides family over etc etc. there is more to karma. If it is true why my mom and father are suffering so much with regards to my sisters marriage ?? I do not mean to argue with u but just telling u my situation.
     
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    Dear OP,didn't mean to hurt you..was just citing my family experiences..some situations in life are just so tough that we start to dig deep and analyse.. you will surely find solution/pariharam soon..
     

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