Breast a part of us too tender and should be cared from young itself, the other day I was watching a video of our relative and there are triplet in our family, it was very pathetic to see them dressed the way they were with jammed up breast to make them look young in pavadai and chattai. Now coming to the care of the breast, some girls are too Punic in their endowment. So they can dress however they want and wait for the right size to develop to get a good lingerie, but the others in contrast have to be taken care of immediately, never make them tie it down so that they can wear the pavadai and chattai for long, we can add a duppatta laced with the same color as the border of the pavadai and pin up on both the shoulders, giving it a very aesthetic look. The breast has to be taken care with the appropriate size in cups, never buy a smaller size of cup to make it look smaller, in the process certain nerves get damaged, and the bulging breast folds, damage the shape in the long run. While selecting the bras, we have the liberty, enamour, catering to most sizes till 42 inches, so it is better to get a bigger cup so that it covers the breast from all sides. If it is more than that we have Sonari and so many other brands that have come. Now online bras are available for all sizes. When u allow your child to go for games and jogging see to it that they fit themselves with the sport bra that is available in the sports shops. This bra if fit well will not damage the breast while doing exercise. We need to teach the children to not be ashamed of their endowment, because if u keep pinpointing about the size, sometime they hunch to avoid its visibility, and they start walking with a stoop all the time Now comes the inner care, we need to teach how to help sagging breast to uplift with appropriate massage and care from young. Even the married woman faces this problem if they are well endowed, so they have to keep an appointment with the massaging session on their own, to bring back the firmness. I have mentioned about the massage in one of these columns here, still a good clock wise massage and a anti clock wise with some supple oil or cream is enough if u do it daily. After the delivery it becomes even worse to maintain, just give time till your child is weaned. Then again start working on the massage as it is the most tender we need to make more effort to keep it in shape. It is always better to go for cotton straps during the growing years they help to keep it in place. Another aspect of having well endowed is having some kind of pimples coming up in the valley because there is not much place left for air, when wearing a wrong bra all this come to fore. So the apparel makes or breaks them. In the hot climate of south India we find many woman having problems of rashes under breast due to the sweat, even if u apply powder it starts peeling, so to avoid this, kindly get your self something different the minute you come back home change the lingerie, most lingerie’s are lined up with elastic to give firm hold and they react on sweat and heat. A cotton bra is any day a better choice for the Indian climate, even when u order from abroad the cotton ones do help u in the heat. It is better to avoid uplift and other procedures as the nerves too delicate in this area, the silicon inserting is all damage in the long run. Any queries about the article is welcome. Regards sunkan
Dear sunkan, Really a wonderful,useful and informative article.Can i ask you queries concerning health(health related queries).One more thing.Now a days everybody is aware of their health and fitness.But certain people don't know the exact age to start wearing a bra.My idea is once the breasts become visible obviously,she must immediately do it.It is the duty of her parents/sisters to guide her.Some wear it after they attain the first periods.A question/doubt.One of my friend looks thin and cute.She did not wear bra until she completed third year in the college.So definitely for a girl it may lead to some criticisms even among her friends.Especially for a thin and slim girl,it is only wearing a bra which gives her right figure and shape.For normal and stout girls ,never mind.so one of her friends suggested to immediately wear a bra.It the duty of the mother/sister of girls(esp who are lean and slim,bra is inevitably needed) to get a correct and fitting bra.Though you may doubts as to why i am writing something disconnected with the subject,now a days external looks matters most.Any person may get upset to criticisms related to Looks/personality.Myself and my friends advised her to take care of such things and boosted confidence in her.So friends take care of sensitive things in life.
u r very right bhargavi, no use waiting for the puberty to arrive, ur friend is slim so may be she felt she can do without but it is not so, it is better to wear a right size and cup for the breast to grow well in proper position and direction, other wise we see it stooping very fast.. pl go ahead a ask what u want abt the health factor too. i should had mentioned but forgot, too many peanuts in teenage leads to the larger breast in woman, so all must chek on this so that they r happy later..regards sunkan