Boss Wants Me Back…. A Secret I Didn’t Reveal Yet..

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  1. anika987

    anika987 Finest Post Winner

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    I have submitted my resignation coz I didn’t feel comfortable with the two men (let’s say A & B) who were working with me..

    Let me tell u a secret which I have not yet revealed..

    One of the guys “A” got excited with the flirting and I don’t know if he realized what he said..

    He blurted “ Rumors are Men at work in the backyard work made out with the women in front desk.Maybe B would like to s**** you in the backyard”.

    I was then shocked and so did B.


    After that I felt deeply very disturbed and this is what lead to one thing to the other in work disturbance.


    After that A spoke to me normally like nothing happened but I could not get my mind over it..

    The men then realized I was extremely uncomfortable and then left me alone.B still on and off tried to compliment..A does not disturb me at all..


    I don’t know if it is my anxiety but I did not like what he said. It is not a joke in my opinion.


    Things have been normal for past two three months but I have been concerned if I should continue working here around these people.

    I submitted my resignation.


    The Boss wants me back and told me to take my time coz of whatever reason I quit coz she loved my work and sincerity.


    I personally love my job and other people are fine with me.

    These two men though they stopped have been in this company for many years and if I have to continue I have to work with them normally like nothing happened.I am not sure. If they will be fired as they are important to the company.


    I am now on a high alert mode with them.

    I feel so anxious and uneasy. Is it worth going back to this office since boss likes my work?
     
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  2. MalStrom

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    It’s your decision to make. You have to decide what’s acceptable for you to live with. I know what I would do but that doesn’t mean anything for what someone else would choose.
     
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    Its your decision. Have you informed your boss about what bothers you, as if you are asking her suggestion
     
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    anika987 Finest Post Winner

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    Sorry guys to make this thread but I feel
    Disturbed..


    I am just upset that I have to quit and honestly I want to quit coz I don’t want to report or be around a person who has been nasty that way.Maybe if it was a big office and I earned a lot of money or if it is a dire need ..my decision might be different.

    I want to quit and I know this should be purely my own decision but I just put out this thread maybe to get answers saying “you did the right thing”..

    I am a very sensitive person and I feel like a weakling to quit this job..

    I want answers like “hey I might quit too” coz I always felt u ladies are strong women.

    If strong women can also quit then means I did the right thing..
     
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    I would quit without a second thought, if that’s what you’re asking.
     
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    gamma50g Gold IL'ite

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    Just a suggestion- but can your boss grant you work from home if he likes your work and wants you back? If you dont have to interact with people who make you uncomfortable for work, why not explore this option?
     
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    Yes thank you
     
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    anika987 Finest Post Winner

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    My job is more related with sales admin and I have to be in person unfortunately
     
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    Looks like they are extremely cheapos to talk all this. For me they are some 3rd class men to speak all these .
    I would quit in your situation but not without informing the head of the organization/boss that you are quitting because of those weirdos...
    A decent organization will fire them and try to retain you
     
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    The office is near my home..

    Am also scared if they r fired maybe some
    Issues indirectly they might cause..

    Atleast in my opinion..they might not do it to the next gal coz past two months they have gone quiet on me
     
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