i have only one indian neighbor and i feel few things odd about her. She is always asking even small small things. First i felt happy that it is just like India, and understand its part of life and social set up... but now i feel odd, specially in US/outside, people do not ask much Asking strange things, everyday usage things, things to travel along for India trip like 3 months and that we are also using it ( also not mentioning she wont be able to return for 3 mo) Infact we started knowing each other when they moved in, asked something and did not return it till 3 months. Asking to take care of kids for longer periods frquently. asking to leave her infant as well with my infant Her kid was always at my house for continuously morning to evening.. Dropping for movies, shopping etc for straight 3-5 hrs. With her, i also started asking things which I normally refrain but i have my limits, outside kitchen stuff i do not ask gadgets. I want to understand personality...they donot think much. Sometimes i say no to unreasonable requests and go on guilt trip.. but here we go, she comes again with something else. She has become good friend now but i feel few things odd before we became friends, asking some sort of stuff from person you do not know Do you have such people in your circle and what kind of unreasonable things they ask?