Hi, Problems with spouse is all common in day-to-day life.I would suggest "Men r from mars and women from venus" written by John Gray to be read by everyone who is in relationship or going to be.There r many more in this series.
FOr some reason, I think "Men are from mars " is just way too over-publicized. Its good. But I wont agree with everything in it. I met many women who said..While they read women's part..they totally identified. But when they read Men's part..there too Identified mostly. So I Would say ..it all about understanding that one man , that one woman in life ..instead of steretypign gender. I have read several and I would recommend reading more neutral books than gender specific. We are all human and we all enter in relation with some goals in mind. FOr each of us, these goals may be same or may be different . Thats where the harmony in marriage get built. You may try some like . The Female Brain Stephen covey- Any book by him is treat for human. I dont like Dr. Phil's way.. But many like it.